I think just like getting yourself to do sitting meditation (which I still hardly ever do despite the well-documented benefits), you just need to start. Just resolve firmly to periodically really slow down, stop even, release all tension and thought chains and open yourself fully the present moment.
In addition to these "stop" moments, you can also resolve to maintain an active observing awareness all throughout the day. Be aware of your awareness! I am now really starting to work on not doing anything fast, or by conditioned reflex or reaction. I'm trying no to take anything for granted or do anything mindlessly. Including simple things like opening doors, getting something from the refrigerator, standing up, walking, etc.
The more you do it, the more you'll want to do and the more you'll notice those "zoned out" times. I catch myself alot now "waking up" to the fact that I've been doing something mindlessly and/or habitually, and tune back in.
I wouldn't worry about establishing any particular trigger, but if it works for you, great. I worked on breath in fact as a trigger last year but perhaps because I never established a regular sitting meditation routine, it didn't really stick. Usually I'll become aware first, then notice my breath, but sometimes the breath does work as a trigger.
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