I was wondering if it is possible that some of us will never find our dreamguides. Or if we will, how do we know if we have found them?

Is there a guide here on Dreamviews about finding your dreamguide? I've been lucid a few times, but not actively searched for my guide. I do have one character that I am fascinated with (Red XIII), and it would be incredible if my dream guide appeared as him. But I'll have to see.