So i've been able to talk with my subconscious from some of my first lucid dreams, but because lucid dreams have been so hard to control for me i am always shouting all the questions i have at him (i'm calling it a him because it's a guys voice). I feel like I'm being super rude and commanding and am going to make an effort to improve that relationship. I was wondering if anyone has been in the same situation or a similar one and could point me in the right direction. I'm going to start by dedicating 2 days a week to just talking to him and trying to makes things better. Any ideas on what else i should do?