WILD is usually harder than DILD because it doesn't depend just on your efforts, but also on things like timing. If you try to perform a WILD too soon, you might have to deal with a block of N-REM sleep. If you try it too late, you might not be able to fall asleep. Besides, this:
This then fades to nothing and I am left lying in the darkness for up to an hour without having experienced any HI, sleep atonia or SP.
is counter-productive. I've performed several WILD where the only thing I remember is relaxing, and maintaining a minimum of awareness regarding my intention. If you stand there waiting for something to happen, you won't fall asleep. What do you do when you sleep normally? Nothing right? That's what you want to do when you perform a WILD: nothing but standing there, relax mode, let the thoughts come and go, and once in a while recall your intention (you can try repeating a mantra like "I'm lucid"). It's generally better to fail a WILD by falling asleep than the reverse: it means that you actually were relaxed enough. So don't pay attention to your breathing, position, hallucination, nothing. If you want to scratch, scratch. If you want to roll, do it. You have to fall asleep to achieve a WILD, so just act normally and even if you fail a few times by falling asleep, eventually you'll get it 
It's mostly about personal insight, so feel free to test it: try getting up in the middle of the night and staying up for 30minutes, and see if you're able to fall asleep. If not, try a shorter period. You can somewhat tell what stage of sleep you were in depending on if you recall being dreaming or not. For example, when you recall a small dream and woke up to an alarm, means you woke up during REM, and should try to WILD right away. If you wake up normally, you'll have N-REM coming next, so you want to spend a bit more time standing up. Keep yourself in the dark though, we don't want you to screw your circadian cycle (that can tell your body that is time to wake up for good).
As you can see, this works best when you have a regular sleeping schedule, which is extremely important for mastering WILDs. On the other hand, why not focus on both? Several DILD techniques can give you a lucid dream if you fail a WILD, like MILD and Tholey's.
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