 Originally Posted by BLUELINE976
How so?
My parents couldn't afford to buy me a car. And being the youngest, my older siblings had more rights to the family car. I always knew that any car in my life would be paid out of my own pocket. Catch 22. How do I go to work without a vehicle? How do I afford a car without work? The public transportation here sucks real balls, and mostly only takes you to min. wage jobs anyways. Good luck affording any car with that kind of job...
My parents paid the bills and were already chaperoning as much as they could without sacrificing work. My mom made a choice. Take my sister to school, or take me to work? She deemed school was more important. I focused on school as well.
Finally I got a lucky break. My moms friend gave us a car for pennies. Having access to a car for the first time in my life, I can now get my license. I was 23 years old. Getting my license was perfect timing, because my new job requires one. It paid about $9 an hour, and lo and behold, it was not on the bus route.
Only six months later the car taking me to work breaks down. Mom sat and spoke with me and told me that night, I would have to quit my job because she can't afford to take me to work. She told me she would save up the money as much as she can so she can buy me a car in the future. My whole life fell apart in that moment. I knew that my mom, who's never been able to buy a car for herself, would never be able to buy a car for me. No car. No job. I would be stuck living with my parents indefinitely. I COULDN'T ACCEPT THIS!!
I told my mom that night that tomorrow I was going to buy a NEW car. She told me to grow up because not even my sister could afford a new car and her income was higher than mine. That night I research cars, I choose my car. And I swore to God it was bloody fucking mine because my life fucking depended on it. SERIOUSLY IT DOES!
The next day mom takes me to the dealership, just to muse me. Mom and the salesman both agree that because of my income level I should try looking at some of their used cars. But living with my parents for the past 23 years, I knew that USED CARS COST MORE and are unreliable. I wanted the ten year warranty. I told the salesman I wanted a NEW car.
By the end of the day everyone knew me by name because I was the little fish that got away . Not only was the salesman stunned that a bank qualified me, the banks actually started fighting over me so I got the best deal as possible.
When I drove home with my new car, no one in the family congratulated me. Dad had never been able to buy a new car, so it took almost a week for him to register that the car was mine, and brand spanking new.
I'm happy to have an awesome car, with awesome mileage, ten year warranty and other perks. I KNOW WHAT A LUXURY IT IS. She's my little golden chariot. More importantly I'm happy that I'm ABLE to go to work. What's the point of my story? The point is this liberty came into my life at the age of 23!! Other people knew this liberty at the age of 16.
Now imagine a 16 year old who was given a car, even a hand me down. Fast forward into the future. They are now 23 years old. Who has more job experience? Whose resume looks better because they have more job experience? Who has more disposable income because their car is virtually free?
Is it too hard to imagine how that 23 year old is better off than I was at 23??
I'm the only one at my job currently making a car payment. With the exception of my old boss, everyone else has a vehicle that mom or dad gave them. Having the extra income allows them to put the extra money into other things, like apartment bills. I think being able to pay the apartment bills is a luxury. I luxury I very much look forward to doing soon.
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