Thank you DreamyBear, that answer really solved it all for me! I feel a lot more comfortable (logico-instinctively speaking) about the "judging other's lifestyle/opinions/behaviour and the line that society puts as to whether or not and how they intervene" topic and the morality aspect of it.
Wow thats awsome to hear! And I have to mention that I rarely, stumble up on someone so open-minded that you seems to be. It's much more appreciated to have a discussion in that way too, since it leads to so much more than just the defending of ones current beliefs for the sake of "winning" the discussion. However, your welcom Occipitalred! And thank you for your interesting questions and thoughts.