man, you are not alone! i have been dreaming of a man too. and this is really affecting my life. when boys want to date me, i always think of the man of my dream, and refuses to go with them. i know what i'm doing is wrong and all because i am falling for someone whom i don't know even exists. I have been dreaming of him quite a lot for almost half a year. and in real life, i end up crying because i badly wanna meet him. I don't know if it is possible for a person to dream of someone whom the never met before... but i hope you don't end up breaking your heart. You love your girlfriend, and you love the girl in your dream too. you should choose whether go with reality or dream. surprisingly, i chose dream...