Glad you sorted it out now.
The dream seems simpler than where I went with it. That's how it was different to you. Though the underlying basis should be the same.

Ahh,
it would be wired for one bit of me
...... makes sense of the hologram, which is where one bit contains all other bits or the whole If that is one bit of you the part that you can't channel/use yet.
So it's not so much literally what I thought, but more your inner capacity as you said. And you had to stop focusing on this, if the very nature of it is focusing on others - which seems the theme running through your dream. A more sublime selflessness, rather than a clear action, perhaps. I went overboard.
Wow your last line put it well, or right. Even that an oak is about the biggest strongest tree I think.
So, it may be about you having to focus on the whole you are part of, rather than your bit, like the hologram, for your Unity Consciousness Dream.
You knew all that though. Good to see a dreamer thinking!