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      ...boss sex?

      I'm working at a new start up company. My boss was as an acquaintance who I sent me CV to and he got me in. I've work really hard and I know he has a lot of respect for what I'm doing. But I've always felt sexual tension with him. I ignore and avoid it. When I was on a business trip I had to put in a huge effort not to have anything happen after our nights out together. He's much older than me and married. Right now there's a crisis at work and he's stepping in make my life easier. It's increased my feelings for him.

      In my dream I'm running around at work. I'm pretty much doing everything in every department. Other people are waiting for me and the workload is about 1000% what anyone generally accomplishes. I'm running from place to place and juggling a lot of demands. I'm the only one really working. Then all of a sudden I'm on a hill, with my boss. He's behind me and I'm sitting between his legs. It seems very romantic now, but in the dream it was somehow normal. Then he touches my crotch (basically) and I wake up.

      I don't know if this dream is a premonition of anything or an extension of my own world. Or something else entirely. The last time I had a dream that was like this is pretty much outlined a romantic encounter that came up weeks later

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      I think you've got a crisis at work, and your boss is stepping in to make your work life easier, and that increases the sexual tension that you have been feeling for that guy.

      Therefore, you dream that you've got way too much work to do, and that you are in a sexual situation with your boss.

      The dream matches your present situation and emotions. I don't think there is more to it than that.

      I know what it is like to feel an illicit attraction at work, been there. However, I think it is a really bad idea for anything to ever come of it. He is your boss. He is married. Not a good idea on several levels in waking life. In dreams however, that's a whole different matter: when we are asleep, our inhibitions are down and our secret illicit wishes and fears and issues and all that come out. Nothing deeply wrong with that in dreams: it happens.

      You are right now under a lot of stress due to the crisis at work, thus this may also not be a good time to think such things over too much in waking life. If I were you, I would wait until things have calmed down at work. Then if you still think there is something to consider in waking life, at least you should then have hopefully a clearer head to think things over.
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      I think you are just fantasizing in a dream about an untouchable situation in real life. I hope you do nothing that could encourage a married man. You probably are conscious to avoid that. That causes a repressed idea, and it surfaces when your mind is more free of inhibition. Just like it would if you were drunk. Oh,,, yeah, do not get drunk around him.
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