Thread: Sex Dreams

Originally Posted by VagalTone

It seems like you want to do it with the whole Universe

Do you know how I could do that?! That sounds great

Originally Posted by Cheysdreamer

Well this is sure interesting.... I mean I guess I've had sex in dreams, but usually these are dreams that I'm not fully in control of. My dream guy Jareth... I've had orgasms with but we never have sex.... It's very strange. I never write it down as it seems too much for public view and sure as heck don't tell my husband, he's already jealous enough of my dream guy... Oi!

How do you have orgasms without sex? Is it spontaneous? Does he have to touch you? Is it just his magnificent presence that triggers it? That's part of what I'd like to do!

Originally Posted by anotherdreamer

How do you have orgasms without sex? Is it spontaneous? Does he have to touch you? Is it just his magnificent presence that triggers it? That's part of what I'd like to do!

It's usually while we kiss or mind share. More the latter than the former. He is sorta kinda perfect to me. It's hard to explain. Like real life orgasms feel good and all but it's so physical vs mental and with him it's everything, I feel it everywhere and mind enveloping. It's a really really good feeling. I'll wake up achey in my lower abs. Lol

Originally Posted by Cheysdreamer

It's usually while we kiss or mind share. More the latter than the former. He is sorta kinda perfect to me. It's hard to explain. Like real life orgasms feel good and all but it's so physical vs mental and with him it's everything, I feel it everywhere and mind enveloping. It's a really really good feeling. I'll wake up achey in my lower abs. Lol

That's incredible, exactly what I'm trying to do! Thank you for the great response, you give me hope

It's totally okay if you don't want to, but it would be immensely appreciated if you would help me by trying to explain how it happens. I think that it could help me a lot.
Do the feelings originate from him and then trigger something in you?
Do you think it originates entirely from the experience of mind sharing?
Are you lucid during these dreams or are they just amazing, non-lucid dreams?
How long does it last for?
Have you ever tried summoning Jared and having this incredible orgasm experience with full control over it?
When you say, "real life orgasms feel good and all but it's so physical vs mental and with him it's everything, I feel it everywhere and mind enveloping", what exactly do you mean when you say that with him it's everything. Are you saying that it's no longer physical vs mental but they are working together?

Once again, thank you sooooo much.

I can try to help. I mean I'm like really open about stuff but yet not... so I will try, even though its super hard for me to grasp explanations of it since it mostly just happens.

Originally Posted by anotherdreamer

Do the feelings originate from him and then trigger something in you?

-Anytime I see him, I'm automatically ecstatic to see him. I don't know if you've ever met that one person who sets you on fire, but that would definitely be Jareth in my dreams. My husband is my safe ground, my rock, and my love of my life. Its difficult being "with" two at a time. But neither hinder my love for the other. I love them as much as I always have and differently. My husband is my husband and no one will ever replace him Jareth is the man in my dreams, protector, and many other things and has been in my dreams since I was little. He seems like he could be that dangerous fiery love that never ends well. So its hard to say what triggers it for me. I can't deny I'm in love with him in a way, and I'm sure that has a lot to do with it. He clearly loves me more than life itself.

Originally Posted by anotherdreamer

Do you think it originates entirely from the experience of mind sharing?

-I do believe the mind sharing to be the biggest factor. Now don't get this confused with dream sharing because I honestly have no idea what Jareth is. Whether he is another part of me, another dreamer, or just someone I made up. But when we go to certain places the clarity and feel of the dream is completely real. I still know its a dream, or that my physical body is still asleep, but everything feels so real! I see his past, he sees mine, we know each other inside and out, yet not at all. That's what I love about him so much.

Originally Posted by anotherdreamer

Are you lucid during these dreams or are they just amazing, non-lucid dreams?

-Fully lucid, I rarely remember a dream where I'm not lucid. The level of lucidity is what is different. For when the orgasm is, its the deepest lucid I know of. That perfect clarity.

Originally Posted by anotherdreamer

How long does it last for?

-Are you asking the feeling of the orgasm? I suppose since time is irrelevant in dreams it would be hard to say. Could be seconds, minutes, hours. I just know it lasts long enough for me to ache.

Originally Posted by anotherdreamer

Have you ever tried summoning Jared and having this incredible orgasm experience with full control over it?

-I've tried "summoning" Jareth with no avail. He comes on his own time. I can call all night long, if he's not coming, he's not coming. I don't think I've ever had full control over this. Jareth seems to lead most of whatever we are.

Originally Posted by anotherdreamer

When you say, "real life orgasms feel good and all but it's so physical vs mental and with him it's everything, I feel it everywhere and mind enveloping", what exactly do you mean when you say that with him it's everything. Are you saying that it's no longer physical vs mental but they are working together?

Yes basically. Both working together. I guess I'll try to explain it further. In waking life, I have to try to get there and have an orgasm, its work, no matter how much pleasure I am getting I still have to work at it. Sometimes easier than others but I always work hard to let it happen. It feels great don't get me wrong. Connecting with my husband like that is amazing, emotionally, and physically, but I just feel I have to "make" it happen. Whereas, in dreams and with Jareth, we are fully clothed, there is no "action" so to speak. A simple hand on my cheek and forehead together to share our memories. A light surrounds me, everything in that moment is fully connected, me, Jareth, our emotions every single one you can feel is felt to its fullest and together, our minds connected on a level you can't get in waking life, spirits intertwining, everything, in that moment we are one. I always feel amazing after these. I wake up achey in my lower abs. Its just, so much its really hard to grasp. I don't write it in my journals either! That's the part I don't like sharing usually.

Originally Posted by Cheysdreamer

Spoiler for :D:

I can try to help. I mean I'm like really open about stuff but yet not... so I will try, even though its super hard for me to grasp explanations of it since it mostly just happens.



-Anytime I see him, I'm automatically ecstatic to see him. I don't know if you've ever met that one person who sets you on fire, but that would definitely be Jareth in my dreams. My husband is my safe ground, my rock, and my love of my life. Its difficult being "with" two at a time. But neither hinder my love for the other. I love them as much as I always have and differently. My husband is my husband and no one will ever replace him Jareth is the man in my dreams, protector, and many other things and has been in my dreams since I was little. He seems like he could be that dangerous fiery love that never ends well. So its hard to say what triggers it for me. I can't deny I'm in love with him in a way, and I'm sure that has a lot to do with it. He clearly loves me more than life itself.



-I do believe the mind sharing to be the biggest factor. Now don't get this confused with dream sharing because I honestly have no idea what Jareth is. Whether he is another part of me, another dreamer, or just someone I made up. But when we go to certain places the clarity and feel of the dream is completely real. I still know its a dream, or that my physical body is still asleep, but everything feels so real! I see his past, he sees mine, we know each other inside and out, yet not at all. That's what I love about him so much.



-Fully lucid, I rarely remember a dream where I'm not lucid. The level of lucidity is what is different. For when the orgasm is, its the deepest lucid I know of. That perfect clarity.



-Are you asking the feeling of the orgasm? I suppose since time is irrelevant in dreams it would be hard to say. Could be seconds, minutes, hours. I just know it lasts long enough for me to ache.



-I've tried "summoning" Jareth with no avail. He comes on his own time. I can call all night long, if he's not coming, he's not coming. I don't think I've ever had full control over this. Jareth seems to lead most of whatever we are.



Yes basically. Both working together. I guess I'll try to explain it further. In waking life, I have to try to get there and have an orgasm, its work, no matter how much pleasure I am getting I still have to work at it. Sometimes easier than others but I always work hard to let it happen. It feels great don't get me wrong. Connecting with my husband like that is amazing, emotionally, and physically, but I just feel I have to "make" it happen. Whereas, in dreams and with Jareth, we are fully clothed, there is no "action" so to speak. A simple hand on my cheek and forehead together to share our memories. A light surrounds me, everything in that moment is fully connected, me, Jareth, our emotions every single one you can feel is felt to its fullest and together, our minds connected on a level you can't get in waking life, spirits intertwining, everything, in that moment we are one. I always feel amazing after these. I wake up achey in my lower abs. Its just, so much its really hard to grasp. I don't write it in my journals either! That's the part I don't like sharing usually.

That's beautiful, truly beautiful. I have a girl in my dreams too that has been in them since I was really little. I have a very similar experience with her as well in that we have a profound connection, nothing needs to be said because we already know everything the other is thinking and feeling. When I look at her I feel nothing but absolute love, joy and a sense of undifferentiated oneness for that brief moment, until the dream ends. "A simple hand on my cheek and forehead together to share our memories. A light surrounds me, everything in that moment is fully connected, me, Jareth, our emotions every single one you can feel is felt to its fullest and together, our minds connected on a level you can't get in waking life, spirits intertwining, everything, in that moment we are one." That's my favorite part, I'm really going to try to experience this with my dream girl. Thank you so much for your openness.

Originally Posted by WakingNomad

i suggest meditating and chanting within a dream and in waking life.

After practicing meditation in a dream, then, seek out a soulmate or dream wife or lover type of character to have serial dreams with.

Yeaaa, I've been trying meditating in dreams and in waking life, haven't been too successful with it in dreams. For some reason when I start to feel that blissful feeling where my body starts to vibrate, shivers run up and down my spine, and my heart swells with compassion I tend to wake up . That's why I've been working on time dilation in dreams lately, hasn't worked yet but I'm still hopeful! I will definitely keep trying it. And as far as dream wife goes, I have one! And I just realized how wonderful that is thanks to you guys, I'm going to try to have more dreams with her.

Originally Posted by Cheysdreamer

I can try to help. I mean I'm like really open about stuff but yet not... so I will try, even though its super hard for me to grasp explanations of it since it mostly just happens.



-Anytime I see him, I'm automatically ecstatic to see him. I don't know if you've ever met that one person who sets you on fire, but that would definitely be Jareth in my dreams. My husband is my safe ground, my rock, and my love of my life. Its difficult being "with" two at a time. But neither hinder my love for the other. I love them as much as I always have and differently. My husband is my husband and no one will ever replace him Jareth is the man in my dreams, protector, and many other things and has been in my dreams since I was little. He seems like he could be that dangerous fiery love that never ends well. So its hard to say what triggers it for me. I can't deny I'm in love with him in a way, and I'm sure that has a lot to do with it. He clearly loves me more than life itself.



-I do believe the mind sharing to be the biggest factor. Now don't get this confused with dream sharing because I honestly have no idea what Jareth is. Whether he is another part of me, another dreamer, or just someone I made up. But when we go to certain places the clarity and feel of the dream is completely real. I still know its a dream, or that my physical body is still asleep, but everything feels so real! I see his past, he sees mine, we know each other inside and out, yet not at all. That's what I love about him so much.



-Fully lucid, I rarely remember a dream where I'm not lucid. The level of lucidity is what is different. For when the orgasm is, its the deepest lucid I know of. That perfect clarity.



-Are you asking the feeling of the orgasm? I suppose since time is irrelevant in dreams it would be hard to say. Could be seconds, minutes, hours. I just know it lasts long enough for me to ache.



-I've tried "summoning" Jareth with no avail. He comes on his own time. I can call all night long, if he's not coming, he's not coming. I don't think I've ever had full control over this. Jareth seems to lead most of whatever we are.



Yes basically. Both working together. I guess I'll try to explain it further. In waking life, I have to try to get there and have an orgasm, its work, no matter how much pleasure I am getting I still have to work at it. Sometimes easier than others but I always work hard to let it happen. It feels great don't get me wrong. Connecting with my husband like that is amazing, emotionally, and physically, but I just feel I have to "make" it happen. Whereas, in dreams and with Jareth, we are fully clothed, there is no "action" so to speak. A simple hand on my cheek and forehead together to share our memories. A light surrounds me, everything in that moment is fully connected, me, Jareth, our emotions every single one you can feel is felt to its fullest and together, our minds connected on a level you can't get in waking life, spirits intertwining, everything, in that moment we are one. I always feel amazing after these. I wake up achey in my lower abs. Its just, so much its really hard to grasp. I don't write it in my journals either! That's the part I don't like sharing usually.

Wow, this sounds so beautiful and incredible to say the least, I can't even imagine in my head irl how that must feel. My mind is blown .