Thread: Can you Create Recurring Friend or Girlfriend for your dreams?

Lucidity institute itself mentions people with physical disabilities using lucid dreaming to fulfill their romantic lives Personally I think everyone has something to gain by having a partner in his/her lucid dreaming adventures, even if it's just to fulfill some emotional/social aspect you can't/don't want to in waking life.

And yes, something like that is entirely possible. I can easily summon one of my cats during any lucid, regardless of any place I'm in, and while I never thought about summoning the same dream character over and over, I'm pretty sure it's not harder than an animal (it's all the same thing in the end: expectation!).
What you need to do is perform the same action (whatever method you use to make the dream character show up) until you build a mental schema, that is, a solid and unbreakable action-reaction moment. At some point, you'll be so used to make the lady to appear to you, that you'll do it without any difficulties. We could go on about specific ways of making her show up (take a look at this dream control tutorial for example), but I'd advice you to practice the basics during your first lucid dreams

PS: sex, for many beginner lucid dreamers, can be quite an issue, because all the excitement might lead you to waking up. This is another good reason why you want to develop a strong sense of the basics (stabilizing dream and calming yourself) before going on that journey if you want to experience it at it's fullest effect

PPS: we have a member (can't remember the exact name) that is an expert on re-ocurrent universes. He/she has several dream guides (for the purposes of this talk, we could say they are re-ocurring dream characters that have a deep insight about his/her own identity and are more intelligent than the regular dream character), and his/her Dream Journal would be a great place to get some tips on the subject. I'll try to remember his/her name and post it here later

I know this is possible to some extent. I have had reoccurring lady friends. I know this family of three women, a mom and her two adult daughters (DCs) who have been in my dreams for many years. When they show up I recognize them and they are like long term friends. Sometimes I just hold hands with one of the daughters and go for a pleasant walk. Some times we all share dinner. On occasion I make out with the mom (and sometimes kiss one of the daughters).
I think it may be asking too much at first to have the same DC in every LD, because control takes a long time, but eventually if it is your goal you can do it. I also have a dream guide who is very familiar, like a respected older brother. We have spent countless hours talking.
You can in fact develop deep emotional attachments to your recurrent DCs, in fact at one time I had considered exclusively dating the mother (how silly is that! But true). I however, then met my wife IRL and I actually had a emotional sense of being sneaky and cheating when I spent time with the DC. The DCs are not my puppets, and in fact the mom has frequently got jealous and pissed off if I mention my wife.

What crazy fun! Endless possibilities! I am very touched by your line of questioning and hope beyond hope that we can help you achieve this! What a worthy goal.