Tuesday 13-Dec-11 (16:05)*
And it’s the one you use when you’re applying for a job, when you’re saying hello to your neighbour, when you’re having the ordinary, garden variety, day-to-day relatings that make up our social reality. So, we have to be the linguistic Self in order that we can be integrated with other people. And the usual way we relate to other people is one way or another, through our cultures.*
And our cultures demand that we be able and available for linguistic tasking, able and available to use words when relating to other people at any time.*
Now, the other thing about the linguistic sense of self, and here we have an illustration that shows you the two senses of self on the two sides of the brain as well as the language centres, Broca’s area and Wernicke’s area. For those of you who are interested, Broca’s area produces speech and Wernicke’s area understands speech.*
Wernicke’s centre in brain*
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And, ordinarily these two senses of self are quite seamlessly integrated. So even though we are the sense of self on the left, we get lots and lots of input all the time from the sense of self on the right. And when I say self in this context I mean the word in a sense that matches the (?) self-esteem, so that our self-esteem rises and falls according to the words we hear.*
If someone says to you, “You’re cute” we feel a bit better about ourselves. If our boss says, “You’re fired” we feel terrible. If another employer says, “You’re hired” we feel great once again.*
Our self-esteem impacts on our emotions and there are very few things that go on in the inner landscape of human consciousness than our emotions. Almost nothing looms larger, (than our emotions). And our emotions change radically according to the words that we hear.*
This is an important piece of understanding to take onboard, to understand that we are our linguistic sense of self. We are the left hemispheric one as the dominant sense of self.*
Now, ordinarily like I said, the two work together quite seamlessly. But once in a while communication between the two breaks down, which appears in this illustration, as having the lines that connect them sort of broken-up a bit. And this can happen for a number of reasons. The communication between the hemispheres can lose its coherence, they can fall out of phase with one other, one hemisphere, because of some circumstance can stop working as well as the other and we can find that for a moment we don’t quite feel intact.*
We absorb ourself in a book, and then someone calls to us and we have to pull our attention out, and there is a brief moment where we sort of collect ourselves, and bring ourselves back to that social being that we have to be in order not to be alone with the book, but rather connecting and relating to someone else.*
The relating is not completely automatic and in moments when we have to grope for it, umm, though we can find, if you’re looking carefully enough, that your sense of self is kind of broken-up a little bit.*
When the two actually fall out-of-phase or lose there coherence in a more extreme way, both of them continue to operate but one of them is no longer available for us. It’s broken it’s communication with the other. And what happens is that it’s perceived as a separate being that exists outside of ourselves, outside of our bodies space.*
And this creates the basis for a whole class of experiences called*“Visitor Experiences”.*
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