 Originally Posted by WakingNomad
What I would accept as proof is unimportant. What you accept as proof is what matters.
Not true. When you are telling people what to think about the boundaries of reality (as far as whether or not an imaginary entity is an actual, conscious being), it is very important. I understand your idea of "well, if it's true enough to you, then maybe you should treat it as an actual thing." Hell, I would even agree with an "In my opinion, these are conscious beings, and you should treat them as such." But, when newbies come to this site, and ask questions about dreaming and the dream state, I find it kind of...what's the word...'indulgent' (I suppose) to be telling them such things as if they were factually sound. I strongly believe that there is a disconnect between the "well, if it's real to you, then maybe you should run with it" ideology that you seem to believe, and the "yes, these phenomena are objectively real (and quantifiable as actual, conscious interactions between beings)" way that you are promoting it. The fact that you don't even take the care to let newbies know that this is your opinion, and your interpretation of your own experiences is, I think, dangerous. That is why I asked you the question; because I believe my "are you a conscious entity?" test would be a little harder to pass than yours. I was (am) genuinely curious.
 Originally Posted by WakingNomad
But, what made me think other people in my dream were not DC's was firstly having confirmed shared dreams with Raven. I obviously had to accept the fact that she is real. This is how I proved shared dreaming to myself: we made plans to meet in dreams. We would write our dreams before speaking to the other or reading their DJ. The dreams are sometimes similar, and sometimes exactly the same.
As I asked you in your dream journal, what exactly are you allowed to discuss with the other dreamer, beforehand? I've learned to notice patterns in my own dreams, that they often have something to do with recent dreams of my own, or dream journal entries that I have recently read. Not that there is really any way to prohibit the two of you (or others) from talking to each other before writing your journals, but I would think it really interesting if the two of you sent your dream journals entries to an impartial 3rd party, before posting them to your online journals.
 Originally Posted by WakingNomad
I met other characters in dreams who I assumed were dream characters, but they stood out, as a real person would amongst a thousand cardboard cut outs.
'Stood out' how? In my dreams, no two DCs really ever "feel" alike, unless they are just vague strangers, whom I don't really interact with. So, in a sense, they each "stand out", for their own reasons.
 Originally Posted by WakingNomad
Then, I met Selene.
She kept coming into my dreams, and would persist even when I would focus on something else, or tell her she is a dream character, go away. She attacked me, and with every clash of our weapons, she said, 'I'M REAL I'M REAL I'M REAL."
After even one encounter, her being so vehement about telling you that she was real is a very likely reason why she continued to do so, in subsequent dreams. This is how recurring dreams work. Once an idea gains steam, it often manifests itself, in that image, over and over.
 Originally Posted by WakingNomad
I had conversations with her, and she told me things I would've never thought of.
The mind does this often, does it not? There is a large difference between our conscious train of thought and our subconscious train of thought. Our subconscious mind takes in stimuli in its "rawest" state. Our conscious minds filter it through our biases, our latent perceptions and our ignorance. The fact that a DC told something you "never would have thought of" is more accurately stated as the DC telling you something you "never would have consciously thought of," and then you are still left making the call of whether this was because you just consciously didn't see it from that perspective (which is, by basic psychology, both possible and common), or because this DC is another conscious entity, which you are communicating through metaphysical means (which, while considerable, has very little empirical backing).
I believe that people should be very careful when making these sort of judgments, as it has a fundamental bearing on whether that person is mentally able to separate fact from fiction.
 Originally Posted by WakingNomad
Also, there was another entity, Spike, that Raven and I kept dreaming with. He's not my DC, and he's not Raven's. He is sentient and makes his own decisions.
How do you know this? A staple of dreaming is that our subconscious mind is controlling the DC's, not our conscious ones. So of course they are going to often show their own personalities, and make their own decisions. The brain is aware of many other possible decisions you could make, and one of these is likely to manifest itself in the DC's behavior, even if it's not something that you would have consciously thought of. Sure, sometimes it is possible to control them, just like sometimes it's possible to fly with perfect control. And, of course, sometimes it's not. The ability not to be able to control a DC is (unless proven otherwise) no different than having difficulty flying in one dream and not in another.
 Originally Posted by saltyseedog
You can't try to ignore a thought. Thats like saying don't think about an elephant. What do you think about? An elephant. The thought will chase all over hell and back. You have to focus on something else to make it go away. Like when you meditate you focus on something like your breathing or a mantra.
That's pretty much what I said. I guess you got hung up on it because I said "trying to forget?" I said that because it was being presented as a way to make a DC go away. Even if you are trying to focus on something else, you are still 'trying' to forget that other thing, if you are using it as a tactic for ridding yourself of a troublesome DC.
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