I am not very experienced, and maybe you shouldn't take my advice seriously. I'd suggest just trying to dild. If you can recall 2-4 dreams every night, that's pretty good. Do reality checks until it's a normal thing and use mantras as you fall asleep. Be confident as well. This is what helped me reach my first lucid dream.

also, 'u', 'r', and 'wat' are not words. It is really hard to read