First of all, you should just be focusing on recalling your dreams first. Don't jump into it and try to WILD and work on recall. Take your time, slow down. Also what time are you WILDing? From your post it seems like you are trying to WILD before bed and I do not recommend that. WILDing before bed is very difficult. In order to WILD you should be attempting it after 4-7 hours of sleep or during a nap. Also don't worry about not seeing HH too much. Not everyone gets much HH, you should be focusing more on just getting into the dream. HH is also just not color. It can be sounds, images, feelings, vibrations, etc.

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Also we have a few transsexuals on here, and you really shouldn't be laughing and be immature about it.