 Originally Posted by Xanous
Sometimes and more often than I'd like, I suffer from low recall. ... what do you personally do when this happens? I assume it happens us all, right? Or what are some good ways to improve recall in general?
That's an interesting question, and I'm not sure it was ever asked here.
What do I do when I don't remember dreams? Well, I guess the obvious answer is that I don't remember them! Seriously, though:
[there's a "tl;dr" at the end of all this, BTW]
First: Sometimes things simply don't get recalled, both in waking life and dreaming life. Unless you've got real memory issues (like alzheimer's ) you regularly fail to remember some things because your brain has determined that whatever you just forgot simply did not need to be remembered. There are countless exceptions to this, of course, and we all forget things we wish we'd remembered (like the name belonging to the face of a person you just met yesterday).
With dreaming we get this in spades, because, given their generally chaotic and trivial nature (IMHO, of course), the stuff of dreams rarely makes it into short-term memory, much less long-term memory. This may be happening for a very practical purpose, too, because it might be important that you don't remember dreams in the exact manner that you do waking events, lest you get the two confused! Again, there are plenty of exceptions -- I'm sure anyone here can recall important dreams they had when they were small kids, especially nightmares... many dreams are recalled, whether or not you want them to be or not!
Now: What do I personally do about it? Pretty much nothing. As I have stated elsewhere many times, I believe that LD's are waking-life consciousness memories, and do make it easily into my brain's short and long-term memory. In other words, good dream recall shouldn't be necessary for remembering LD's. Which is why, I suppose, dream recall didn't make the list of fundamentals, though memory itself did. But you want an actual answer, don't you? OOkay...
Truthfully, good recall can be a valuable tool, particularly if you are just starting to LD and are looking for patterns and dream signs that will better help you to succeed in DILD. That is important. I used to try to remember my dreams, and got pretty good at it, if I can recall (that was a very long time ago). There is something to be said for enriching your life with the memories of NLD's too, especially if they seemed to carry dome meaning for you (though I tend to caution against this -- there might be a reason your mind forgets dreams; especially the ones to which you attach meaning!).
I'm rambling, and I've completely abandoned your question! So:
Yes, poor dream recall happens to us all. In fact, excellent dream recall is quite rare, contrary to what you might read on this site -- populated as it is by people who take dreaming very seriously and therefore might tend to have unusually good recall. You are not alone.
What do I personally do? Well, if I'm waking up from a very good dream that I want to hang onto, I sort of do a reverse WILD -- I hold perfectly still, and try to let the images of the dream I just had swim around in my head as I approach wakefulness. This effort can tend to make those images consciously "important," and thus give my brain a little initiative to hang onto some of it. Usually some of it is enough, as the blanks will be filled in later with the details as your memory files the dream (keep in mind that your memory might invent some of this fill-in stuff, so it might not be what you actually dreamed; one reason dream interpretation is a potentially iffy practice). Oh, and this procedure is a very handy tool for practicing DEILD as well!
The next thing to do to recall NLD's, is immediately write them down -- and not just "cues" or major images, but everything you can remember. This serves the dual purpose of making the dream important enough to remember, and preserving it on paper just in case it doesn't get remembered. Writing down what you dreamed should be done even if you master that reverse WILD I mentioned above because it so efficiently solidifies everything. Also, I'm pretty sure that writing dreams down is a fairly popular method here at DV, if that matters.
I hesitate to mention this, but a small dose of B-6 (200mg for me) seems to aid in recall. At least for me.
And that is all I do. I personally think no more needs be done, because the dreams I really want to remember are LD's, and those have never been a problem for me, especially when I write them down. And, as waking memories, they should never be more difficult to remember than any waking memories. Again, I also have always been a bit concerned about remembering too much of the chaos of dreams -- it can be so easy to attach meaning that was never there, or, worse, "rewrite" entire dreams because you knew they were cool but can't remember a thing about them.
tl;dr:To help recall I hold very still after a dream, letting the images become "important" enough for my short-term memory to hold onto. Then I solidify the memory by immediately writing down every detail that's still available. A small dose of B-6 might also help. Though recall to me is not that important (I'm after keeping LD's, which by definition are"easily" remembered) , I do understand that it is handy for DILD and keeping dreams important in waking life, so it wouldn't hurt to build your skills.
I hope that helped, or made some sense at all -- ask again if it did not!
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