A few issues with attaining lucidity

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Hey guys, just a few issues i've been having for a while with attaining lucidity. Firstly, I've only had one lucid dream before. It was after spending a lot of time focusing on it and sadly after I had it I got distracted from lucid dreaming and I kinda fell off from there. I wake up a lot after dreaming during the night but I feel I'm too awake when I try to WILD, then i focus on becoming relaxed and I just fall asleep again in an instant. It just feels as if nothing works for me and it kinda sucks to know I can do it but it feels like such a difficult task for me. I'm just looking for any tips or words of wisdom from people who've been in my situation before or even those who haven't, any words would be appreciated. Edit: Forgot to add that I can remember a lot of the dreams I have during the night but when it comes to drifting off again I just feel I don't have the skill to do so while still holding on to my awareness. I know a lot of people have probably posted with this sort of problem but everybody's different and i really need some help specific to myself.