I was trying to WILD this morning and I was feeling heaviness, so
I knew I was getting closer. But then I started to get.... Uh... Aroused. I felt very uncomfortable, And I feel this prevented me from being successful. Err... Any suggestions?
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I was trying to WILD this morning and I was feeling heaviness, so
I knew I was getting closer. But then I started to get.... Uh... Aroused. I felt very uncomfortable, And I feel this prevented me from being successful. Err... Any suggestions?
Maaaaaaan you must have some awesome hypnogic imagary!
I say the solution is to wear loosely fitted clothing and next time it occurs, just observe it in a disinterested way. It should go away on its own. You might have to clarify what you mean by aroused. Persuming you're a man, do you mean you're getting a sudden erection with no sexual thought or is it actual horniness? If its the latter case and whether you're male or female, the solution is to frig away before hand or if you have a partner, get frigged. If you're the sort that gets drained after a good release, do this 10 minutes before the WILD. If you feel energised, do it at least an hour before hand. And yes, using beforehand as 2 words was intentional ;)
REM atonia typically results in arousal due to the muscles that regulate bloodflow there being paralyzed. Or so they say.
Well, I am a dude, and its just sudden. I dont actually feel horny or anything, it just kinda shows up. I wasn't sure if it was good or not to "frigg" beforehand (:P) becuase i wasn't sure if it would affect my chances. I guess it wont. Thanks for the input.
It's a natural thing that you get an erection before falling asleep. It happens every time but normally you won't notice because your head is already asleep.
Every time you are in REM sleep you get an erection, so thats 5 times a night. :cheeky:
As people have mentioned, It is normal to be physically aroused during REM sleep. It happens to both men and women. I guess it is a good sign that you are entering REM.
I have definitely had experiences of becoming randomly aroused during WILD attempts. Our bodies sure are weird.
Alright cool. I honestly thought it was just me haha. Now im more sure im getting closer to REM. I guess I am just doing it at the wrong time. Should i try to wake up earlier, like 3 in the morning? Whats the best way to determine my REM cycle?