CatBus, that video actually made me laugh after the first kid left The other two seemed completely into the act, though it sounded like the boy banged his head at one point.
But in life, I HATE it when people throw babies/little kids in the air and the kid is GENUINELY TERRIFIED. I want to walk over to the adult and smack them upside the head.
I am currently sad because my hubby is sad. He called me, crying, because he thought he was being an "asshole" to me and he was disgusted with himself and wanted to say sorry.
Yes, to an outsider he seems extremely emotional abusive at times. But I have lived with this man for almost 9 years. He treats himself worse than he even thinks about treating others. He's a self-motivator and he relentlessly puts himself down to do things he's put off. Unless I'm overly PMSy I understand him and am not offended in the least.
When I returned from visiting my son, I was hyped up on 400 mg of Provigil, in an EXTREMELY good mood and very talkative. He was working on his vehicles and had Leo Laporte (sp) blaring in the garage.
I told him, playfully, if he loved me a WHHHHOOOLLLLEEEE lot, he would go to Target and buy me 3 exact outfits as I was wearing. He then noticed I was smoking and sniped: "THAT thing?! With that cigarette you look like some fat-assed [forget]"
I replied with an exaggerated: "Harrumph! I do NOT have a fat butt!"
He then back-pedaled some and said: "No, you don't, but it's what you always see lazy bums wearing around the house getting fat on bonbons.......... but if you really like it, you should go buy some more."
Then I tried to help him with the vehicles, but I could tell he was annoyed. So I walked him to the garage, gave him a hug and a kiss and told him: "I'll go ahead and get out of your way, but give me a call if you need help with anything."
I went into the RV, started catching up here and he called all upset. 
I told him I wasn't offended in the least and there's no reason for him to feel badly. I said, I went to the RV because *I* get annoyed when people hover over my shoulder when I'm trying to do something and I could tell he was frustrated.... especially seeing how I'm so hyped up on Provigil.
But he's depressed because he had an entire week off from work and he didn't do anything "productive". And I've not stayed the night for what feels like weeks. He's lonely, has been sick, "is going to die of old age before enjoying himself" [he's been "on the verge of dying" since I met him. His dad died in his 50's and hubby's now 64 and feels he's living on borrowed time.] I just wish I could DO something to make him feel better or his life easier.
Yes, my hubby is often an arse hole. But he's MY arse hole and I just feel so useless.
I also realize he's had little sleep for the last few days and he took a Valium earlier in the day for a headache, so "I'm" not completely to blame for his blues.
Poor hubby
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