 Originally Posted by Alric
I think most people want to be right and want to know the truth. So while that is true about people's subconscious desire to dominate, it isn't as likely that they consciously would rather dominate than know the truth. They kind of just get into that mindset, and it is hard for people to get out of it. Even extremely liberal people can get stuck into that way of thinking. I think it is probably a rare person who consciously says they have no interest in the truth and just want to be right.
Well, yeah, of course most people won't just say "I don't care about being right, I just want to win!" (some actually will admit to it). But arguments bring out the worst in people quite often - and as you say, liberals aren't immune to wanting to win either. Once the emotions get strongly engaged, reason flies out the window. Heh, in fact one rather interesting section of The Republican Mind deals with studies showing that liberals can be made to think like conservatives in certain situations - namely when they're strongly emotionally engaged (mostly anger or fear), extremely distracted - or drunk! 
It's because liberal thinking is more nuanced and subtle, and tries to deal effectively with all the variables, as opposed to the conservative tendency to make quick black or white distinctions about things. This one tends to piss conservatives off (understandably) - but keep in mind there's a long-running conservative joke that liberals are indecisive and wishy-washy, and when it hits the fan, you want a conservative on your side - they'll swing into action instantly to defend anyone they consider 'one of theirs' (friend, family, conservative - hell even a damn dirty liberal hippy) against an outside threat - even if they've just been arguing violently with that person, whereas a liberal has more of a tendency to turn their back on people and whaffle on and on about the consequences. I'm simplifying of course - most people don't fit neatly into either box - we all have some liberal traits and some conservative traits, and those to varying degrees (plus there are other factors). Damn, isn't it irritating, this liberal tendency to cover all the bases!! I'm getting irritated at myself for it!! 
But, to get back to the point, when someone argues to dominate rather than to educate, a certain rationalizing is going on in their head. The conservative mind has a tendency to work from emotion rather than from reason, but the person often doesn't realize this. It happens unconsciously, and so fast that they aren't aware of it. A liberal might get exactly the same emotional reaction in the same situation, but will stop and analyse it and decide it's worthless and do some reasoning before making a judgement - but a die-hard conservative will react instantly to the emotional gut reaction and then work to rationlize it afterwards, rather than examine their own thought process. And when they're criticized for this, they'll get angry and lash out rather than consider that the criticism might actually be valid. This is why large portions of the Republican party (in the US) tend to believe the bible or their own gut reaction over science, and why a smaller portion of the same party believes in Creationism. And why, even when presented the evidence (the same evidence that convinces liberals) they'll figuratively jam their fingers in their ears and sing Battle Hymn of the Republic at the top of their lungs to shut out the facts they don't want to hear.
But I disagree that most people want to argue to get to the truth... as was suggested in the OP, historically argument was to dominate, and it makes sense. A career politician gets more mileage from making their opponent look bad than from being right. The same sort of cut-throat politics apply when several people are up for one promotion - just look at The Apprentice!! People will go all character assassin on each other for enough provocation! So while getting to the truth might benefit the society as a whole more, it doesn't necessarily offer any incentive to an individual.
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