 Originally Posted by Summerlander
To me, asserting the afterlife as a reality without any cogent evidence strikes me as an airy-fairy, quixotic approach. We all want things to be a certain way because if they are not, well, it's just sad. We would all like to see Afghanistan safe from the clutches of the Taliban and Ukraine free from the Russian menace that looms at its borders and has now begun to attack. But facts don't care about feelings. Bad things will happen regardless. A whole nation—men, women and children—suffering the severe adverse effects of warfare is not tough love, it is an atrocity even in the long run; the face of a soldier who has survived the hardships of a world war is quite telling (the countenance often expresses a broken soul, as it were).
I cannot see, for instance, what kind of lesson can be derived by a father in a situation where his daughter has been raped; it is something too horrible to take place just so that a 'lesson' is learned by the parties involved. Surely, even prior to the rape, the father can already imagine such horridly daunting scenario and how awful it would be if it were to befall his daughter. We can all imagine worst case scenarios! There is absolutely no good reason for rape to take place other than someone perverse is getting their jollies from a heinous crime because anyone who isn't a psychopath can imagine how detrimental to one's health and sanity such an act can be. In fact, the psycho will relish the victims' suffering and enjoy the power he has over them.
I absolutely do not see, by any stretch of the imagination, how such calamities are the only way in which people can 'learn' other than to say that, often, what doesn't kill you naturally makes you stronger—and even though one naturally develops a thicker skin, some scars never heal. Here's the impact losing loved ones can have on someone:
'The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone.'
~Rose Kennedy.
So, sorry to say, MoonageDaydream, but I vehemently disagree with your worldview. I also would ask VVilliam which part of God's reply to Job is caring other than belittling him before a vast and dangerous world. As I said before, I don't see Job's godly answer coming from any external divine source other than a voice in his head reflecting a deep realisation that bad things happen to good and bad people. So Job, knowing he cannot rely on the blessing of some imaginary heavenly father, develops a conscience that will help him navigate through life, a sort of personal salvation, and thus the parable of Christ follows ...
Call them what you will, they are still my beliefs, and I'm entitled to them - evidence or no. You can disagree; that is fine by me. I am not here to convince anyone. I am here to share my thoughts and views.
I don't think just because you see bad things happening in this world, that we can assume our universe is uncaring. That may not be so. We do this to ourselves. We have our free will. And there are laws of nature. That does not mean the universe does not care, and does not want what is best for all. By the very nature of the universe, with the belief that all is one, I believe it does care, because it is Itself, and it is Love. But.. our universe is in a process of awakening to itself. So.. you and I and all people are part of this awakening process. It is up to us to grow, it is up to us to hurt each other. As we grow, we care more.
There is always a lesson, I believe, but that doesn't mean the bad event is deserved. Of course not. Still, if we can handle it, the way out is through, and in the process we learn. Even if the lesson is to build our strength by experiencing difficult situations as you have described. This is a benefit, believe it or not. There is always a benefit to the soul after hardship, if we can successfully process and integrate the event. We become stronger. We become more empathetic to those who have experienced similar hardships.
“But you will know the more you get it touch with your transcendental mind (and therefore truth) that there is no such thing as a victim. The negative benefits you more than anything else in your evolution and the evolution of all that is.” - Teal Swan, Sculptor in the Sky.
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