But people argue about inconsequential things, and create ill feelings about it. Important things are human rights and environmental issues should also not be argued about. Yes, there are sexist and racist people, but you aren't going to change their minds by disrespecting them. People have reasons for being who they are. I see any harming anybody whether it is repressive to women, immigrants, or motivated by greed, or disrespecting someone on the basis of their harmless views on reality. I think disrespect of people is harmful. Intolerance is harmful. But I don't really like the word "tolerance". As if the best we can do is tolerate each other. I don't agree with Catholicism since it is backward in my opinion, it fosters guilt and shame, and makes pedophiles of priests, but I respect people who are Catholics. Yes, I try to point out the error of their thinking if they are full of shame, but who am I to disrespect their beliefs? Even Biblical creationsists, who I think have a very distorted idea of what is really going on, I can't disrespect them. I may be the one who has no idea of what is true or not. Let a few people believe the Earth is flat. It is their right. But they don't have the right to harm people who believe otherwise. And btw, most people on this planet believe that women should be repressed. Sad, but true. Most people think homosexuality is evil, most people don't like nomadic people, most people don't like this or that, people who are different than them. And most theists don't like atheists and most atheists don't respect theists.
Really, I don't see how it hurts to just let some people choose to believe that dinosaurs and humans coexisted in spite of evidence to the contrary. It is a harmless belief. And people should have the right to believe what they want to. I have conversations with my friend's granddaughter who is a "Jew for Christ". I ask her about her beliefs and how it all works, and I point out things that don't make sense to me and she explains it, not to my satisfaction. There comes a point where I have to say "Well, maybe you are right." and leave it at that. She says "I am right!" and I say "Maybe you are. Who knows?" She can't argue with that. But I can't tell her that I think it is all bullshit. I do tell her what I believe however.
Things like harming people, violating freewill, injustice, inequality, are important, and that is where I draw the line. Aquanina is right, bickering over creationism and dinosaurs on an online forum is very childish, and there are better ways to communicate. You say yourself that "it's all very well respecting people's opinions about 'inconsequential' things like music or metaphysics". I agree, it is all very well to do that, and that is my point. So can we have peace now so we can get back on topic. Actually, what I said before was the only thing I had to say about this topic, so I will just return to see what other people say. But this is an interesting idea for a new thread. "How far should tolerance go?"
So, do you have a problem with that? Or can we get back on topic?
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