Thread: Does Kissing another guy in a LD make u gay? or sord of gay?? help..

I won't put all the details because you don't want to know lol I'll go straight to the point. (I dont THINK i was in full control because i .. ok i dont want to admit i kiss another guy in my LD dream
What happened was that i was with a friend of mine and suddenly i became lucid when i say this guy walked right pass me(He made me go lucid it was his fault). After that i had this urge kiss the guy who walked right passed us.Right after i became lucid i followed him. I started this conversation (u dont want to know about it)and suddenly out of no where i kiss him and in real life i haven't kiss anyone before so i dont know what to think.. the worse part is that i have him for a class so i can't even look at him or talk to him.I feel so weird around him. i hate it. its just with that idiot, who i hate now and wont talk to him ever again because he makes me feel bad in a way even though i know it was just a dream....( but it was so real ) Any advice but plz don't say to tell him about the dream it would be worse....

You're only gay if you feel gay. I've kissed girls in dreams before (and in real life but uhh let's not get in to that) and haven't given it a second thought.

Being gay is not what you do, being gay is how you feel. I myself remember liking boys more than girls back when I was seven. I knew I liked boys, but only later did I find it suspiscious that other boys weren't like me.

If you think you'd give a boy some attention, then there's still no need to panic. You just like boys, that's all. It doesn't mean you'll become a crossdresser who will talk like a duck.

You might also be bisexual, if you like boys and girls at the same time. Or, you could be completely straight: our subconscious plays tricks on us when we're dreaming. Dreams can portray literaly anything. I've had many dreams of me kissing people I completely hate, and it only meant that I wanted to become friends with them.

Anyway, if you want someone to talk privately, go ahead and PM me. I'm all ears (or eyes ^^)

Originally Posted by Kromoh

It doesn't mean you'll become a crossdresser who will talk like a duck.

And what's wrong with that?

Originally Posted by Super Duck

And what's wrong with that?

Well obviously he's going to need to talk like a wolf if he wants to get some tail...

Lol. S'pose so.

I remember years and years ago I kissed a guy in a dream, it wasn't lucid though. But i'm definitely not gay, and I was a bit weirded at the time, but then I was like "Well it was just a dream, it doesn't really mean anything". So don't let it bother you, it doesn't mean you're gay.

Edit: And like Kromoh says, it'd be more about how you feel than what you do.

You may think you were lucid, but you werent fully, you still have a dream logic, most of the time.. I was lucid once, and talking to some DC's, thinking - this guys are lucid, too and even we were trying to take control of ours lucid telekynisis powers together, or at least practise them... And this other time - I fucked a dog or something like that .. I wouldnt think about this in real life, but.. Probably not the coolest thing for a lucid, right?

I remember back in my highschool psychology class that my teacher said when you dream about something sexual with a member of the same sex, it usually means you admire that person/they are a role model.

Originally Posted by TempleGuard

And this other time - I fucked a dog or something like that .. I wouldnt think about this in real life, but.. Probably not the coolest thing for a lucid, right?

Oh.... o.... Oh dear god....
haha luckily it was a dream hey!


Seriously blade it may not mean anything. If you don't like guys, you don't like guys. There isn't gonna be some deep seeded lust to have gay sex.
It was a dream and the guy doesn't know about it AT ALL. So you don't have to feel weird around him. Although I know how it feels. I was just thinking about fucking this girl once in class and then she came over and started talking to me and I went x infinity because for some reason it was like she knew kinda, not really knew but.... I dunno how to explain it. So if it turns out you do like him the first step to finding out is to not feel embarrassed or whatever. But I would advise not to act on anything while in school, I'm assuming you're in school because you said he's in your class. Mainly because people are afraid to be gay or different in general around peers.

Lol, I once had lucid sex with this boy I like, and it felt weird even to look at him from far away xDD I guess it's because you subconsciously still believe it happened for real. But it didn't, did it?

And the gay thing. Hey, I am gay and there are only two people who know it in RL - one of my cousins and a girl I don't even see anymore. Of course, that plus everyone on the Internet

Originally Posted by CrimsonWolf

I remember years and years ago I kissed a guy in a dream, it wasn't lucid though. But i'm definitely not gay, and I was a bit weirded at the time, but then I was like "Well it was just a dream, it doesn't really mean anything". So don't let it bother you, it doesn't mean you're gay.

Edit: And like Kromoh says, it'd be more about how you feel than what you do.

yeah i wont let that stupid dream bother me but i will stay away from him. The funny thing is that i had never even notice him before but i guess my subconsiouce did lol!!!

As weird as it may sound, I actually had a non-lucid dream that I had sex (sort of) with my step-brother. I was completely grossed out when I woke up and remembered it but I have no sexual feelings towards males in waking life and actually strongly dislike physical contact with males unless it's a sport or shaking hands.

If you're gay, you're gay. It's that simple. Think about it this way: if you fly in a dream, does that mean you're a bird?

No one except this board even knows about this dream so I wouldn't let it bother you unless you are in fact attracted to males.

I had lesbian sex in a dream once. I think it was because I was curious as to what its like. I am straight IRL though, as I've never been attracted to women. I think you're ok unless you actually feel something for men.

A few weeks back I dreamt I was planning on having a 4sum with, among other people, my sister. Thankfully we both decided we couldn't be bothered before it began.. but hey, dreams are dreams and they're a load of nonsense that means nothing!

It could be nothing more than curiosity.

I've had dreams where I had sex with other females, doesn't mean I'm gay. I've had lucid dreams where I was a guy and had sex with another guy. Doesn't mean I'm gay. I've had lucid dreams where I've had sex with clones of myself. What that hell does that mean?? haha. All it came down to in those dreams was me being curious it.

I haven't had sex with an animal in a lucid dream yet though.
Thanks alot for getting that idea stuck in my head temple guard.

Lucid dreaming is all about experimenting with thing that you would never do in real life. I kissed a girl in a ld just to see what it was like. I am married to a man, so kissing a woman is something I would never so in real life. I'm afraid of heights in real life too, but in LDs I know there is nothing to fear and nothing bad can happen, so I can fly and go as high as possible.

Originally Posted by goldentheponygirl

I'm afraid of heights in real life too, but in LDs I know there is nothing to fear and nothing bad can happen, so I can fly and go as high as possible.

You should really learn how to apply that to your real life. Sure, if you jump off a building nothing bad will happen as long as you're dreaming, but hey, doesn't mean you'll jump off a building in waking life.

Too bad if neavo didn't want everyone knowing he's gay

Lol @ this thread! It's just turning into stories of homo-eroticism, incest and buggery.

On that note I turned into a girl once for the TOTM and a guy started rooting me.

Originally Posted by Amelaclya

I think you're ok unless you actually feel something for men.

Even if he is gay he's still ok. lol

"Not that there's anything wrong with that" - Seinfeld

Originally Posted by tommo

Even if he is gay he's still ok. lol

"Not that there's anything wrong with that" - Seinfeld

I'm sorry, I didn't mean it to sound that way.

Of course gay is still ok (to me) He seemed a bit worried that he might be though, so it might not be OK for him

I've revised my earlier opinion,

Yes it makes you gay =P

Originally Posted by Anonimus

Think about it this way: if you fly in a dream, does that mean you're a bird?

Totally valid comparison!

Originally Posted by Bladekillua

I won't put all the details because you don't want to know lol I'll go straight to the point. (I dont THINK i was in full control because i .. ok i dont want to admit i kiss another guy in my LD dream
What happened was that i was with a friend of mine and suddenly i became lucid when i say this guy walked right pass me(He made me go lucid it was his fault). After that i had this urge kiss the guy who walked right passed us.Right after i became lucid i followed him. I started this conversation (u dont want to know about it)and suddenly out of no where i kiss him and in real life i haven't kiss anyone before so i dont know what to think.. the worse part is that i have him for a class so i can't even look at him or talk to him.I feel so weird around him. i hate it. its just with that idiot, who i hate now and wont talk to him ever again because he makes me feel bad in a way even though i know it was just a dream....( but it was so real ) Any advice but plz don't say to tell him about the dream it would be worse....

No, not at all.......it makes you a flaming homosexual. jk

Originally Posted by Bladekillua

Any advice but plz don't say to tell him about the dream it would be worse....

Kissing another guy in a dream would not make you any more gay than killing someone in a dream would make you a murderer Bladekillua.

The fact is that people dream things all the time that they would never consider doing in the physical, and that are often completely contrary to their belief system.

Part of the reason for this could be the way the subconscious mind communicates and understands things.

I would be willing to guess that to the subconscious mind, kissing a guy in a dream means something completely different than it does in the physical.

It could be your subconscious minds way of telling you that this person has a lot in common with you.

I hate to even mention the other thing that could have caused this, but here goes.

We live in a world of spirits.

Although we cannot usually see spirits, they are there. Those who are psychic can see them better than others.

And how do spirits attack people?

Through their mind, by dropping thoughts into their mind.

So, the thought you had may not have come from you at all, but may have been from some gay spirit trying to make you think this.

That's why it is so important for a person to learn to discern their thoughts and be able to determine which thoughts came from them, and which may have come from another source.

Only you can determine what the actual meaning of this dream is Bladekillua because no one knows you like you know yourself.

What you decide it means will be what it means to you.

gay spirits!? really.