Quote Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant View Post
My advice about relaxing is bullshit?
Yes. What you said pretty much amounts to "do not improve yourself or change anything, just wait for something to happen."

Relaxation is key, but that only comes with experience. Telling a guy who is nervous around girls (may not be the case here, which is why I asked for more information) to just relax is meaningless. It is the same kind of generic relationship advice a mother would give.

The fact is an average guy with girl problems who is approaching a girl for the first time is not going to be able to relax. What they must do is force themselves out of their comfort zone and approach anyway. Eventually they will see that girls are not scary and that rejection is not very painful. With this realization comes confidence and relaxation.