Quote Originally Posted by spockman View Post
I don't want to just go screw the nearest girl...

I think screwing the nearest girl is a start

and telling girls you're available is also a way to become more available. actually, just looking at girls gets the job done.

Quote Originally Posted by Carôusoul View Post
Not true.

You've just had bad experience.
agreed. my last relationship ended bitterly, and even I don't support that mindset

I know a guy who says the same stuff, saying that sex is all that matters. he has no heart for a relationship right now. why? because he's only had one girlfriend (not necessarily your case), and she cheated on him (not necessarily your case, either). I don't blame him, though.