Thread: ~ * Ask me about Picking Up Women * ~

Originally Posted by Adam

You've clearly never met anyone worth fighting for then... I guess I'm in the wrong place. I don't want to 'game girls' as you put it. I would rather have one person worth being with because I cannot get her out of my head, and have just one girl have my attention. But that's just me

Yeah I used to to think like that too bro, but look at it this way. Let's say this girl, that's all in your head. All your focus is on her, is all her focus on you? Is she really thinking about you just as much as you are her?

Showing too much interest to a girl when she isn't matching your level of interest your displaying, then you are in for problems.

Say this girl is a really good looking one. She's had guys compliment her all the time. She know's she's goodlooking. Almost all the guys have told her "lets go to dinner" or "lets go to the movies" doing this is not only predicatble but boring! I'm not saying you do that, but have you ever?

You must be that fun, outgoing, guy that the girls will love. Don't be like everyone else and do the predicable things everybody does.

If you think this information is too much, then I wish you bro's luck. If you ever need help, just PM me.


goodluck

You know what ALWAYS works?

The "do I know you from somewhere" line. Man it works like a fucking charm. Only if you're in highschool or college though.

Simple.

It doesn't matter if the girl is in the mall, at the library, or even at work. I've used it all over the place. In fact, I just used it at some chick who worked at Chipotle. It was quite nice.

It goes a little something like this.

Girl: *is looking rather attractive*
Yourself: Hey, you look familiar. Is your name *insert random name*?
Girl: *confused*... No.
Yourself: *slightly questionable* Do you go to *insert local highschool/college*?
Girl: Yes.
Yourself: Okay, crap. I know this girl who looks exactly like you, but I don't know her too well. I know some people from *insert previously stated school*, though. Who do you hang out with?
Girl: *girl talks about several people*
Yourself: *if you know stated people, continue normal conversation, if not, continue random conversation*.

You're in like a pin.

It just takes common ground to start a conversation, when you don't know anyone at all.

Originally Posted by AmazeO XD

You know what ALWAYS works?

The "do I know you from somewhere" line. Man it works like a fucking charm. Only if you're in highschool or college though.

Simple.

It doesn't matter if the girl is in the mall, at the library, or even at work. I've used it all over the place. In fact, I just used it at some chick who worked at Chipotle. It was quite nice.

It goes a little something like this.

Girl: *is looking rather attractive*
Yourself: Hey, you look familiar. Is your name *insert random name*?
Girl: *confused*... No.
Yourself: *slightly questionable* Do you go to *insert local highschool/college*?
Girl: Yes.
Yourself: Okay, crap. I know this girl who looks exactly like you, but I don't know her too well. I know some people from *insert previously stated school*, though. Who do you hang out with?
Girl: *girl talks about several people*
Yourself: *if you know stated people, continue normal conversation, if not, continue random conversation*.

You're in like a pin.

It just takes common ground to start a conversation, when you don't know anyone at all.

I'll try that.

What if she's your best friend, and she has a best friend that is also your friend...I'll give fake names.

I'm Jon. My intrest is Alice. Her friend is Jenny. I'm best freinds with both of them. Jenny knows I like Alice. She doesn't want me to though, because it would be akward. Alice, I don't know if she likes me or not. I'm considering leaving it as it is, so everyone's happy except me, so I take the nut-shot so Alice and Jenny don't have to deal with it. Right desicion or not?

Originally Posted by xXSomeGuyXx

I'll try that.

What if she's your best friend, and she has a best friend that is also your friend...I'll give fake names.

I'm Jon. My intrest is Alice. Her friend is Jenny. I'm best freinds with both of them. Jenny knows I like Alice. She doesn't want me to though, because it would be akward. Alice, I don't know if she likes me or not. I'm considering leaving it as it is, so everyone's happy except me, so I take the nut-shot so Alice and Jenny don't have to deal with it. Right desicion or not?

Not right. Tell Alice. The whole "you look familiar" is only for girls you don't know.

Man, you just gotta tell "Alice" how it is. If she's one of your best friends, she'll understand.

Don't be all about it, but at least let her know how you feel.

Something like "I don't want it to mess up our friendship, but I know I have some sort of feelings for you, and I was wondering if you had those too?"

If she says no, that's it. You're still her friend, and you know now.

You shouldn't risk your happiness because those two girls will get jealous, angry, etc etc.

Alright. I'll take the nut-shot for a little then pull that one. Thanks!

Originally Posted by xXSomeGuyXx

Alright. I'll take the nut-shot for a little then pull that one. Thanks!

Do me a favor someguy, when you do that, come back here and post what happens. And be completely honest, I'd appreciate that.


Goodluck bro.

Originally Posted by AmazeO XD

You know what ALWAYS works?

The "do I know you from somewhere" line. Man it works like a fucking charm. Only if you're in highschool or college though.

Simple.

It doesn't matter if the girl is in the mall, at the library, or even at work. I've used it all over the place. In fact, I just used it at some chick who worked at Chipotle. It was quite nice.

It goes a little something like this.

Girl: *is looking rather attractive*
Yourself: Hey, you look familiar. Is your name *insert random name*?
Girl: *confused*... No.
Yourself: *slightly questionable* Do you go to *insert local highschool/college*?
Girl: Yes.
Yourself: Okay, crap. I know this girl who looks exactly like you, but I don't know her too well. I know some people from *insert previously stated school*, though. Who do you hang out with?
Girl: *girl talks about several people*
Yourself: *if you know stated people, continue normal conversation, if not, continue random conversation*.

You're in like a pin.

It just takes common ground to start a conversation, when you don't know anyone at all.

Hey, yeah! That's worked for me in the past quite a few times.

And good advice on fear, that could apply in other places too. Especially for people like me who have trouble deciding things.

Originally Posted by suttsman

Hey, yeah! That's worked for me in the past quite a few times.

And good advice on fear, that could apply in other places too. Especially for people like me who have trouble deciding things.

Exactly I forgot to mention, this will work universaly. Anywhere anytime, not just with approaching women.

Thanks bro.

Yeah, I'll post back.

Go into a bar, make sure there's no one there you know. Go up to women (make sure there's no guys around who could be their boyfriends) just grunt "sex" and if it works you got it, if not just keep trying.

How do you pick up a girl if you don't speak the native language very well and usually can't understand what she's saying?

This guy, Marcelo, told me in Argentina your just supposed to touch and not give a fuck about talking... I think that's what he said. I don't know, I honestly have no idea how to make a girl comfortable enough to sleep with me when I can't communicate with her.

Originally Posted by hungrymanz

Go into a bar, make sure there's no one there you know. Go up to women (make sure there's no guys around who could be their boyfriends) just grunt "sex" and if it works you got it, if not just keep trying.

Hey I use this too, I got it to work on Ashley Tisdale

Originally Posted by Jorge

Exactly I forgot to mention, this will work universaly. Anywhere anytime, not just with approaching women.

Thanks bro.

He "forgot to mention it".

No really. You're the kind of guy who makes it seem so hard.

There is no "I'm trying to teach you how to pick up three girls at the mall."

That's not teaching someone to ignore their insecurities, it's teaching manipulation.

That's not cool.

I'm not going to argue with you, I am glad you wanted to help that's great. I'm helping them fix there insecurities. Why is it that you think I'm maniuplating? My post and articles are nothing but help. That's all I'm trying to get across.


I do not teach maniuplation in anyway. I teach improvement.


And I'm trying to have him improve from his insecurities by him focusing on why he's truly scared, which is why I have the person ask themselves the questijon.

Originally Posted by Jorge

I'm not going to argue with you, I am glad you wanted to help that's great. I'm helping them fix there insecurities. Why is it that you think I'm maniuplating? My post and articles are nothing but help. That's all I'm trying to get across.


I do not teach maniuplation in anyway. I teach improvement.


And I'm trying to have him improve from his insecurities by him focusing on why he's truly scared, which is why I have the person ask themselves the questijon.

In your statement, you said... "Can you go to a mall and pick up 3 girls? That's what I'm trying to teach here."

And that's not what you should be teaching. Manipulating girls is not a good thing to teach. If you want to end up like some fucking man-whore who has a bunch of STD's and doesn't really give a damn about a girl and any insecurities SHE has, then it would be okay to teach that. But it's not.

Most of the guys who have insecurities about talking to girls is a much bigger problem than "Putting the pussy on a pedestal."

Much bigger problems.