Thread: ~ * Ask me about Picking Up Women * ~

Originally Posted by CryoDragoon

Classic AFC behavior.

lol. see my which" category are you thread". I'm going to explain a certain reason why i left the seduction community. A lot of the knowledge taught there that actually works is common sense stuff.

They boast about being free from the social matrix while unwittingly becoming a social matrix in and of themselves. A lot of their stuff is based on "fear". they preach "if you do this that and the other thing you'll never get laid. And if you never get laid you are a LOSER for the rest of your life. so don't screw it up. If you slouch once in a bar you're gonna fuck up. If you are seen with your hands in your pockets, no one will like you." or "your an AFC. Don't hang around family to much because it's so AFC. Don't play video games EVER because it's AFC. If you listen to classical music in front of a SHB she'll think your an AFC." but the only real advice you get you have to pay for.

Originally Posted by ranma187

lol. see my which" category are you thread". I'm going to explain a certain reason why i left the seduction community. A lot of the knowledge taught there that actually works is common sense stuff.

They boast about being free from the social matrix while unwittingly becoming a social matrix in and of themselves. A lot of their stuff is based on "fear". they preach "if you do this that and the other thing you'll never get laid. And if you never get laid you are a LOSER for the rest of your life. so don't screw it up. If you slouch once in a bar you're gonna fuck up. If you are seen with your hands in your pockets, no one will like you." or "your an AFC. Don't hang around family to much because it's so AFC. Don't play video games EVER because it's AFC. If you listen to classical music in front of a SHB she'll think your an AFC." but the only real advice you get you have to pay for.

I don't believe it's common sense, or at least not to everybody. We all have our each strengths and weaknesses. Some just have a lot of weaknesses. It may be common sense to you, but complete new perspective on your average afc.

Have you checked out the book in my link? I believe it contradicts your theory on free stuff telling you your a loser. TIC are all dedicated to helping men improve. You will be amazed at how much information that covers for free. I gurantee that.

Originally Posted by Jorge

I don't believe it's common sense, or at least not to everybody. We all have our each strengths and weaknesses. Some just have a lot of weaknesses. It may be common sense to you, but complete new perspective on your average afc.

Have you checked out the book in my link? I believe it contradicts your theory on free stuff telling you your a loser. TIC are all dedicated to helping men improve. You will be amazed at how much information that covers for free. I gurantee that.

I wasn't saying every PUA is like that but many are. I think to be good with women one has to build confidence and generally learn to like themselves. I'm not talking about huge ego. I mean just being comfortable with who you are and working on it so you vibe the kind of energy that people , especially women, are drawn to.

Well, not that I know anything about this ...but I'd like to share a few tips that have helped me greatly.


First of all, NEVER approach a woman with a hesitant attitude. Before making contact, empty your mind...and firmly tell yourself that you are the man. Think of all the shit you have went through in your life, be proud of yourself, especially for what you are about to do.
(Women can smell your fear and insecurities like a prowling tiger).

With that confidence radiating from you, you will no longer need to think about pick-up lines, seducing routines or patterns, etc. Stay calm, take deep breaths, and stay focused. For once, forget about what you look like, how you act, or what to say. Remember...it's not WHAT you say...it's HOW you say it! Place your consciousness outside yourself, concentrate on her reactions, moods, facial expressions, body language. Stay comfortable and confident, make small talk and make her laugh anytime you can. BE YOURSELF.

If the woman is not interested, don't worry about it. There are many reasons why she could not be interested, it does not mean that you are a loser. Don't take it personally. If anything, you are now twice the man you were, because you approached her.
(There's a good chance she will respect you for approaching her. She might even have feelings for you now, yet other reasons are keeping her away. It's not your fault).

Also, if that girl rejected you, think of it this way: She was clearly not the one. She could have prevented you from meeting another, better woman!
So if she does, smile at her and walk away. Don't be needy, there are way more opportunities out there. It just was not meant to be.

By being yourself, you will attract the woman that is good for you. (Or women that will be good you ). Picking up girls became way too much of a complicated science. I say, the more fake seducing methods you use, the harder it will be for you. Just be yourself.

Good luck! Get lucky!

^^^

You are exactly on point! This man know's his material. Appreciate that help, stay on this thread and you can help me out with other people's questions too.

Much appreciation High Hunter.

Jorge is a pickup artist (pua for short). Though I'm not sure whose methods he follows. The pickup artist community (Yes, there's an underground community for pua's) is an eventful one. Mostly comprised of reformed geeks/losers/nerds who've learned from mPua's (master pickup artists) how to bed any women they desire. For anyone interested in jumping into this game, I suggest you google the "Mystery Method" and read Neil Strauss's book "The Game".

Thanks for your input Jeff, "The Game" is a good read, but in my opinion that's about it. It doesn't really teach you any material to learn..you get me? I saw the whole book as almost a story. As for the Mystery Method, I know his book, but I've never read it. Any other books, that you found helpful?

Originally Posted by High Hunter

Good luck! Get lucky!

Ooo High Hunter! You're still here! I thought you left.