Thread: Tell Me About Your Dream Woman/Man

This isn't to be confused with an e-harmony hookup matchmaking service With all the different and somewhat similar personalities here, I'm genuinely interested in knowing what mate you envision that's carved out by angels. The categories include: (but are not limited to) Physical/Financial/Mental/Spiritual/Emotional

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I want a woman, whose strong (mentally) independent, a woman who has her own business, a woman whose driven by the vision to excel in life and attain higher things for herself, her family and to make her mark on the world for the better. A gorgeous woman...1/10 she'd be a 20 (Beauty is in the eye of the beholder). I literally love women of every color, but I am quite fond of Latin women with an American accent or a Hawaiian or French Polynesian woman (Tahitian), a woman who values family and spending time with her man/family but understands that business, hers and her boyfriends/husband's is a top priority. A woman who doesn't mind signing a prenup. A woman whose bold, assertive, not overly sensitive, a woman whose eyes I can look into and get a glimpse of forever. And when she says "I love you." the entire world would seem to slow down around me, making that moment seemingly last for hours. A woman whose not only my lover...but also my best friend...we can hit each other (playfully), wrestle around, race cars together etc... Preferably Lp640 vs Benz . A woman who likes to get down dirty and nasty in the bedroom. A totally monogamous relationship. She'll know me, my mind, my past...and sometimes what I'm about to say before I say it. A woman who'll be there, no matter how bad or fucked up things get, be it our relationship, business, times/life etc...she'll ALWAYS be there...we'll always get through it, no...fucking...matter...what.


I remember asking a few people what it feels like to be in love, seeing as I don't believe I have ever experienced "true love". (Or at least not the "There to the end, love you forever" clich'e Hollywood love portrayed on television)

It'd be nice to feel the feeling of "true love", alas I've yet to experience it. Howabout you?

Medium Height.
Brunette.
Fun-loving.
Knows when to be serious, and when to joke around.
She has to be an independent thinker.
Affectionate.
Artsy.
Oh.. shit, I don't know.
I'm easily pleased.

A women like the one in my avatar

Originally Posted by dragonoverlord

A women like the one in my avatar

Very specific.

Originally Posted by Jeff777

Very specific.

I've got a feeling this thread is not going to go very far.

A woman who knows what she wants in life (As long as I'm in the picture), . She can be any race, color, or creed. Not to domineering, but not to submissive. The Main thing is she loves me for me, and not what I can do for her.

She also needs to be within the 20-25 age range, cause anything outside of that would be kinda weird for me, being 21 and all.

More than anything else, she has to NOT be from this hick-backwards town I live in lol.

Originally Posted by dragonoverlord

A women like the one in my avatar

Covered with feces, and with a giant tumour on her breast?

Originally Posted by Replicon

Covered with feces, and with a giant tumour on her breast?

Haha, christ!


The perfect man for me is sensitive, decisive, mature, tall enough so I can wear my god damn heals and he'd still be taller, smiles a lot, has sparkly eyes...

Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant

Haha, christ!


The perfect man for me is sensitive, decisive, mature, tall enough so I can wear my god damn heals and he'd still be taller, smiles a lot, has sparkly eyes...

Get ready for a flood of posts by guys arguing that they fit the criteria perfectly. Be sure that GH will show up eventually.

Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant

The perfect man for me is sensitive, decisive, mature, tall enough so I can wear my god damn heals and he'd still be taller, smiles a lot, has sparkly eyes...

Good thing "good looking" wasn't a prerequisite, else that would eliminate about 80% of the guys here

Originally Posted by Mes Tarrant

Haha, christ!


The perfect man for me is sensitive, decisive, mature, tall enough so I can wear my god damn heals and he'd still be taller, smiles a lot, has sparkly eyes...

Ahh don't spoil me

The Perfect Woman

As the night sky dims, and I fall in my slumber
One object reminds me, why I live longer.

Her hair, silk soft, the beautiful song it makes.
The air fitting perfectly in her crevices.

Oh!, as I think of her my tears go by,

Her legs, a geometrical fantasy,
Curves, and twists enough to rip my wits,

I look into her eyes.. I see not a mere reflection,
I see all her secrets, as pure as the moon,

When I hug her, it feels as if I haven't deserved, what I got,
I don't feel pleasure, I feel as if shes the home I never had.

-Dw

hey guys I think u all need a perfect woman well sure if u search u will find

ok about my dream man a handsome
well first of all he should be a real man u feel he is really a man
accept me the way iam
travel with me "do not like to stay at home all day long " like to go out and see nature and beauty
don't tell me do this and that just freedom
hm also strong so he can protect his family

finally can understand life and me

Originally Posted by Jeff777

A woman who doesn't mind signing a prenup.
we'll always get through it, no...fucking...matter...what.

I'm sorry Jeff I couldn't resist....

Good luck in your quest for

Originally Posted by Moonbeam

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I'm sorry Jeff I couldn't resist....

Good luck in your quest for

Haha thanks Moonbeam.

Nice thread so far, I'm going to reply maturely and not try to wreck your thread like some people :cough:

For me, My perfect Woman would be a strong woman, someone who can take charge and make me do things I normally wouldn't.
She has to be sweet, caring, loving, very passionate but also very dominant at times.

In terms of looks, well I prefer girls with jet-black hair, a little pale, dark eye shadow and lipstick and that typical emo-ish looking, LOOKING, not acting...haha theres a big difference.

But I still do like blonde girls, or tan girls, girls who are older, or a bit heavier, i like lots of types lol but my preference is that emo-look type of girl.

Now, my dream guy is sorta similar to my dream girl. He's gotta be caring loving passionate and cute, hes gotta be dominant sometimes but also submissive personality wise. I want a guy who could treat me like a girl, or a guy. Someone charming with a sense of humour and someone who will be there for me.

Now for looks, for guys. Its similar to girls:

that emo-look (LOOK lol) is so hot to me, with the hair all messy and the dark clothes and the dark hair, very hot those guys

but occasionally, i like avg guys or muscular guys who are built but my preference is that whole jet black emo look for guys and girls, i just love the way it looks, their so hot!

ok i want a guy that has his own hobbies and not just drinking and partying. i want a guy that doesn't stay inside all day and goes outside and does stuff like climbing, hiking, boating... a guy that likes doing what they want to do even if it is "uncool". i want a guy that is caring and there to listen to me. someone i can feel comfortable with at my worst and they will cheer me up.
as for looks: anything really works for me. i love dark haired guys or light haired guys!! eyes are important! i love the "josh hartnett" eyes i think they are adorable sort of squinty look. brown eyes are great. but i LOVE those blue eyes that only 2 of my friends have. they are to die for!!

i have friends like this and could possibly be more then friends in the near future!
and others i just love to keep as friends and (this may sound bad) but i love it when other girls are jealous of a guy that is my friend just because i can "show" him off and feel proud that we are friends.

I just want one that is like a partner. One that fits together to me like a puzzle. I basicly just want a best friend that I can also love. I don't really care about physical qualities much. I do prefer brown hair, skinny, and taller than normal (Cause I'm 6"3', and I don't want bend over drastically just to hug or something), but that's no big deal. It's not much to ask for, but it truly is my dream girl.

Well, I wasn't that serious when I answered before

Honestly the partner thing is the most important of all for me, because there's no point if a couple live like enemies:/

But too perfect is somewhat boring and if relatioships are meant to taught us something about ourselves and others, the differences can be really stimulating

My dream man will love me just the way I am and will not try to change me into something I'm not. He will accept my flaws and find some charm in some of them

I forgot to say that she must be way into anime like me...

I am currently in love with the girl of my dreams... :/

Seriously... she keeps appearing in them.

There was a thread somewhere around here where a guy asked is it good if a girl calls a guy cute? All the girls said of course. But it can totally be a bad thing. Notice how all the girls want someone tall. What do they call someone who is too short? Cute. Kind of like a puppy. Freshman year of high school I was (god honest truth) 4'11'' and 85 lbs. If I had a dollar every time I was called cute, I would have bought a midget so I could stand on his shoulders with a trenchcoat and look tall. No one was attracted to me even though I was always called cute. Since then as an incoming college freshman, I have grown to around 5' 10'' and 140 lbs. I know it is off topic but I thought it was too funny not to point out.

My girl would be sensitive and funny. Those are the top two. Then smart enough that we can have real conversations. Attractive is important but I don't have any physical requirements. The only thing is that if they are blonde hair, blue eyed like me, we might look too aryan/master racey when we are together. But I can get over that. Someone who is outdoorsy and snowboarding or skiing is a plus.

Oh and girls, quite hating on the shorties.

It is funny that you point out the height issue 'cause I've thought of it and came to a conclusion: that's just another caracteristic like the color of the eyes or hair.
I do love taller guys because I like the feeling of being protected but in the end that doesn't really matter. The best boyfriend I had was shorter than I wished when thinking of my "dream boy". But then again, we may think we know what we want but it seems to me that we focus on the physical.

And the cute can mean sweet, at least for me. I'm portuguese, so I don't use the word that often, but If I had to translate, nice and sweet would be my words. If girls don't think your're hot and super atractive don't worry, because if you're a good guy it's better than beeing hot and a jerk

Do not underestimate charm (It works for me hihihi)