Well, all fo these posts are very interesting approaches and such. For me at least, I'm not out to play a "game" or manipulate anyone. If I'm interested in someone, I'll show it, but in a subtle way. I don't have any routines or plans or anything like that. I just do what feels natural for me and do not try to put on a show or be someone that I'm not. I think if she is really interrested in you, you'll know.