Omg My Sister

**TweaK** · 02-21-2007 11:19 PM

Originally Posted by Merlock

Learn to be considerate. A younger sister isn't your burden but someone special. Do not take siblings for granted, no matter what the circumstances at hand.

Learn to be patient. You swore at your sister and you were punished. Rightfully so. Your parents wish to teach you to not fall victim to your emotions like a wild beast. Let alone when facing someone that you are meant to care for and protect, like a younger sister.

Learn to be understanding. Wisdom and knowledge come with age. This applies to those younger than you at any given point in time. Someone younger is not necessarily any less knowledgable but is less experienced in general. Especially someone quite relatively young, as I picture your sister to be.

All together, do not let aggression govern your mind. It is a selfish and worthless way to lead a life and in the end, when you grow up enough to realise that there are people you truly care for in the world, it may be too late to go back on some actions already commited.
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IT'S SMASHING TIME
~ The Merlock

**TripleX223** · 02-22-2007 02:59 AM

shes crying again... help me!

**Merlock** · 02-22-2007 06:21 AM

This is beyond help. Half of the advice given here is self-centred and focused around the typical egocentric mindframe that so many people unfortunately have ("I'm most important and absolutely nothing else matters as long as I get what I need, always").

If you cannot sense any feelings inside yourself when something like that happens, not ones of anger but of compassion, then it isn't likely you will figure out what to do. Be objective. That does not mean giving up your own positions or rights, like some of the advice from above implies. It means understanding the situation, the reasons behind it and solving the problem in a peaceful manner--through talking, thinking it over and acting.
It's family, for blazes sake, not a group of roommates at a college dorm.

**King and God** · 02-22-2007 05:19 PM

My sister is a fucking crybaby aswell. It is best to tell her to shut up, but if that doesn't work, there's not much to do besides ignoring it.

**Kaniaz** · 02-22-2007 05:32 PM

I'm most important and absolutely nothing else matters as long as I get what I need, always.

**Gwendolyn** · 02-22-2007 06:35 PM

Little sisters are like that. I'm thinking that she probably bothers you so because she is trying to get your attention, and any attention (bad) is better than no attention. Remember how you felt when you were little? Were you never left out of anything important because you were young? You should put yourself in her place. Yeah, I have a little sister who did the same things while I was living at home. She just loves you, and doesn't know how else to get your attention.

**Lord Toaster** · 02-22-2007 09:43 PM

Originally Posted by Merlock

Learn to be considerate. A younger sister isn't your burden but someone special. Do not take siblings for granted, no matter what the circumstances at hand.
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Well you're obviously an only child

Yea I know it's a problem, but they grow out of it... my sister's alright at 12 while I'm 15 - we get on OK almost all the time.
Except that just when you think they're getting old enough to stop being annoying, the hormones kick in and they start going into giggling fits, and getting angry for no reason, which can be just as annoying as losing a 15 min. post....

**TripleX223** · 02-22-2007 10:22 PM

You under stand me!

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