\"the Woman Effect\"

I will start off with a personal story that plagues me every day.

You see, here at my dorm, we have a little informal club called the LNC (the late night crew). It consists of 4 chicks and 5 dudes (including myself), and we stay up till like 3 or 4 in the morning, getting shit faced, playing XBOX 360, and watching Adult Swim. It\'s a great setup, and it is perfect for social interaction with good friends. Until about a week ago, I had no problems with anyone there, until i started developing those common butterfly feelings for one of the chicks. Until that point, i was never nervous around her, considering she is a good friend of mine. Then it all changed. I started constantly questioning myself is i was saying the right things or looking the right way, contributing to an overall taboo feeling.

I am one to say that when 1 person feels nervous, the other person will feel nervous as well, ESPECIALLY with a member of the opp. sex.

So, i ask if anyone else has experienced things like this. Now, i cannot focus on anyone else but her when i am with the group. When i am alone, i feel the same way.

These females PLAGUE our thoughts distort our very selves. WHY?? I dont think that this is love, but i had no idea something so minor as ONE FEELING could change me this much.

WHY??? Why does this happen to us? It hurts and consumes us.

rub one out before she comes over (2 if you have time)
these feelings will subside, and she'll be just another person again


btw, what's with all the slashes?

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Originally Posted by Hard

I will start off with a personal story that plagues me every day.

You see, here at my dorm, we have a little informal club called the LNC (the late night crew). It consists of 4 chicks and 5 dudes (including myself), and we stay up till like 3 or 4 in the morning, getting shit faced, playing XBOX 360, and watching Adult Swim. It\'s a great setup, and it is perfect for social interaction with good friends. Until about a week ago, I had no problems with anyone there, until i started developing those common butterfly feelings for one of the chicks. Until that point, i was never nervous around her, considering she is a good friend of mine. Then it all changed. I started constantly questioning myself is i was saying the right things or looking the right way, contributing to an overall taboo feeling.

I am one to say that when 1 person feels nervous, the other person will feel nervous as well, ESPECIALLY with a member of the opp. sex.

So, i ask if anyone else has experienced things like this. Now, i cannot focus on anyone else but her when i am with the group. When i am alone, i feel the same way.

These females PLAGUE our thoughts distort our very selves. WHY?? I dont think that this is love, but i had no idea something so minor as ONE FEELING could change me this much.

WHY??? Why does this happen to us? It hurts and consumes us.
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Because it's the price ye pay for living a shallow life!

xP

the slashes? My computer is kinda jacked up (i spilled some Steel Reserve on it a while back)

Rub one or two out? Ha!!!! I\'ve never heard it put so bluntly. You see the problem with that is, this isnt one of these girls you just \"rub one out\" to. I am not attracted to her because of good looks. It is more her personality. She really doesnt \"turn me on\" if you know what i mean. It is much more personal.

She\'s a great girl, and we have much in common. We finish eachothers sentences and give eachother the finger at the same time.

The WORST part of the whole mess is she currently has a broken heart. A dude she THOUGHT she was dating apparantely told people that they werent, and this hurt her very much. I dont know how exactly she feels about me, and that sucks too.

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Originally Posted by Hard

the slashes? My computer is kinda jacked up (i spilled some Steel Reserve on it a while back)
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Don't worry, its a dodgy thing going on with escaped characters acting funny

You have a crush, Hard. Dont worry, one of two things will happen:

You'll get over it, and she will be a friend again (though she will always be special to you now)

or

You fall hoplesly in (real) Love with her.

How, and I wouldn't sagest masterbating to her image in your mind. If you do, she will only be an image in your mind to make mentle love to, and you will never be able to think of her as a normal friend again.

ohhh god....how do i say this without being gross.......

i have done the aforementioned tasks (AWESOME!!!! good job, me!!!!) to certain females without ruining our relationship. I dont believe in all that subconcious stuff about mental imagery. Its all in your head (well, you know what i mean)

Realize that this is not the first time this has happened to me. I always get the same distinct feeling for different girls. It SEVERLY distracts me from life in general, and has social effects on me.

While we\'re at it, why is masturbation SO taboo? Look, 99% of guys out there rub one out every now and then. I dont know about females, but i am sure the same percentage do the self induced nasty every couple of days. Its not really a secret.


WOW. i gotta get up in 4 freggin hours for class. College kicks ass and sucks at the SAME TIME.


Really, REALLY REALLY need to stop drizinkin........

Hormones are a bitch. Just screw her then see what happens. Eighter way, you Have to screw her. It is the only cure for teh butterflies.

I disagree

women are put on this planet to f*ck with our minds.

now i suggest that you don't go after a piece of ass that you have to see every night... because that will, 90% of the time, end with you having to avoid that person every night.

i did that... and it got awkward...

unless you just want to f*ck a hot friend then ruin your college years...

-jakelles

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Originally Posted by jacobo

women are put on this planet to f*ck with
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Fixed.*

* Just kidding, don't drag me into a dark alley and kill me please.

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btw, what's with all the slashes?
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It's the escape character for ' and " in php, for some reason some browsers like to think they are helping by adding them, when in reality the script can handle it.

Uhm... you guys are so off or really wrong, lol.

Girls get butterfly feelings too.

Not all girls wanna f*ck with your minds.

Guys f*ck with our minds too.

Yes, girls do the nasty too, but the real thing is a lot more fun.

No, you do not need to have sex to get rid of the butterfly feeling.

Do men always have convos like this? I've gotta know, 'cause you guys have really far fetched solutions :D

Butterflies do suck. I didn't have butterflies for my bf for a long time. I pretty much avoided him actually. I talked to him once, developed butterflies. It sucked, he built my parents' house, didn't wanna intrude on their relationship. Well, still got the butterflies, but not afraid of them now, been dating for two years.

good to know we are all human :)

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Originally Posted by Vespertine

Uhm... you guys are so off or really wrong, lol.

Girls get butterfly feelings too.

Not all girls wanna f*ck with your minds.

Guys f*ck with our minds too.

Yes, girls do the nasty too, but the real thing is a lot more fun.

No, you do not need to have sex to get rid of the butterfly feeling.

Do men always have convos like this? I've gotta know, 'cause you guys have really far fetched solutions :D

Butterflies do suck. I didn't have butterflies for my bf for a long time. I pretty much avoided him actually. I talked to him once, developed butterflies. It sucked, he built my parents' house, didn't wanna intrude on their relationship. Well, still got the butterflies, but not afraid of them now, been dating for two years.
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agreed.