Thread: How Do You Get A Girl To Like You?

i agree with that trying to appear confident won't help you. in fact FAKING confidence won't help you. BUT even if you try and eventually it starts working. what happens? your confidence goes up! and it becomes more solidified = more congruent..

It is true that women go for a meek guy to spend a relationship or mairrage. BUT it starts with attraction. you don't have to go to these extremes mind you. you can balance both aspects BUT one without the other doesn't lead anywhere.

I HAVE NEVER seen or experienced shyness and meekness attract women. i mean anyguy who's been to highschool knows what i'm talking about. AND everyone has seen guys posting in the HELP section - A. they are still a virgin B. they are the nicest guys you would ever meet.

Now if it's true that some women want a guy who's nice and sweet and buys them roses. how do you explain the phenomena of Millions of dateless guys who do their best to live up to this standard?

in fact GUYS if you want proof: do this sign up for www.plentyoffish.com (free dating site) star one as a women. get a good or mediocre pic of google images of a woman and post it.

you won't believe how many unoriginal and just plain "be yourself" kind of guys will message you

egs from mine:

wow!!! way hot we should definatly chat sum time[/b]

its nice that your body is good but i want your mind , and your heart, Im Tony look at my profile and if your interested get back[/b]

Hey there hun I just wanted to let you know that I think your a very cute and sexy girl. Take a look at my profile if interested let me know, I figure what's the worst that can happen make a friend that's easy on the eyes.......Ciao bella![/b]

Hey How are you doing . My name is ****** Im a white 37/m cutie and true sweetheart.Very muscular and workout and train hard. 6 foot 1 dark brown hair hazel eyes 215lbs and athletic. Im from east texas 2 hours east of Dallas. Ive never been married and no kids but love kids. Im romantic too cuddling snuggling and holding each other and more. Dont believe in abusing or hitting any female. Your soo hottt, Heres some roses for you. @---)--- @---)--- @---)--- @---)--- @---)--- @---)--- @--)---- Wanna get to know me? Do you got msn messenger or aol messenger? Wanna add me on your buddy list? let me know Love for you to instant message all the time . My screen name on america online ***** and on msn *************. Email me all you like. My email on america online*****@aol.com and on msn ************@hotmail.com . I really hope ill hear from you alots sexy. Take care, -*******[/b]

whats up babe
i love you pictures
your sexy

holla at me

~***~[/b]

hey i know you don't know me but..... you my new frieand will i hope you add me 2 be your freand i hope to talk to you some day k will bye

***......LUV U.......***[/b]

wwwwoooowwwww!!! YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL... WOW!!! BEAUTIFUL SMYLE BABY.

WWWWOWWWW!!! YOU ARE SO PRETTY.

PRETTY..

BEAUTIFUL SMYLE, BEAUTIFUL, BODY, BEAUTIFUL FACE, BEAUTIFUL, BEAUTIFUL, BEAUTIFUL EVERYTHING.

NICE, SEXY, CUTE, GOOD, BEAUTIFUL, PRETTY[/b]

This and 20 others like this in the first day. Now if that's the way to attract a girl, for fling or lover. how is it possible that 90% of these guys close down thier dating avvounts after 3 months because they don't find anyone interested in them?

Originally Posted by kichu

Oh my god, that's awesome.

Anyway, this is just what works for me, but some of my most intense crushes have been on guys who know how to REALLY flirt properly. It's not too over the top, it's almost a little shy and kind of subtle, but you know it's happening. It's kind of like a flirty game that they're playing with you, and when you realize it's happening you play back and it's sooooo much fun. If a guy can pull it off right, it pretty much doesn't matter what he looks like, because he's got this confidence that's not too overpowering and he's playful and showing a little wit and I really don't think there's anything sexier than that. Oh, and when you're talking to her, make her feel like she's the only girl in the room. And if you can make her laugh really hard, you're in.
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VERY GOOD. that's honest and true. notice how she says "It's kind of like a flirty game that they're playing with you," it is a game. built on 30% bs 50% fun and 20% rapport.

Originally Posted by ranma187

VERY GOOD. that's honest and true. notice how she says "It's kind of like a flirty game that they're playing with you," it is a game. built on 30% bs 50% fun and 20% rapport.
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Well, no. It's not 30% bs. The only really bs part of "the game" is that you're probably trying to convey a little more confidence than you actually have. But you don't want to be feeding her stupid lines and crap. I mean he actually does like the girl, it's a natural thing to want to flirt with someone you like. He just needs to learn to make it witty and fun for her. It really is just all about confidence and being funny and not saying idiotic things. You're basically trying to show the best version of you in a short amount of time to get her attention. I think it's only bs if you don't particularly like the girl and you just want to get into her pants or something. But that's not the case, right?

I'm not a guy, buy I know when I myself participate in "the game", although I know we're playing around, I still am saying stuff that I would say, and doing stuff that I would do. I don't just turn into a different person all of a sudden.

My point - don't bs her and don't be fake. If she has any sort of intelligence, she'll see right through it. Just be yourself, but be sharp.

Originally Posted by kichu

Well, no. It's not 30% bs. The only really bs part of "the game" is that you're probably trying to convey a little more confidence than you actually have. But you don't want to be feeding her stupid lines and crap. I mean he actually does like the girl, it's a natural thing to want to flirt with someone you like. He just needs to learn to make it witty and fun for her. It's really is just all about confidence and being funny and not saying idiotic things. You're basically trying to show the best version of you in a short amount of time to get her attention. I think it's only bs if you don't particularly like the girl and you just want to get into her pants or something. But that's not the case, right?

I'm not a guy, buy I know when I myself participate in "the game", although I know we're playing around, I still am saying stuff that I would say, and doing stuff that I would do. I don't just turn into a different person all of a sudden.

My point - don't bs her and don't be fake. If she has any sort of intelligence, she'll see right through it. Just be yourself, but be sharp.
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^^^^^^Eeeeeexactly.