How Do You Get A Girl To Like You?

**Alric** · 12-27-2006 07:04 PM

Originally Posted by Dice

It's good to show your good sides more often than your bad sides. Also, imitating the girl more or less is something good too. It creates a bond. With imitating I don't mean picking the same interests (however, it certainly won't hurt to have the same interests

). However, when she tends to laugh a lot, laugh along with her. When she smiles, smile with her. When you're drinking something with a girl, try to imitate the things she does a little, just like her. I don't really know why this works. I guess it feels more natural when you're overlapping each other on things. You shouldn't put too much effort in this, though. If you overdo this, it will feel more unnatural than natural. That's what I think...
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Its a psychological tactic. When you copy stuff like that you kind of sync up with each other and they will be more comfortable. Once you are in sync with them you can start doing subtle things and they will unconsciously copy you back and you will be in control of the conversation. Atleast that is what I have heard. I didn't read that inrelation to dating but it was on some site about how to get promotions or how to do very well in job interviews and like how to be a good boss and other work related stuff. Apparently it works for other things as well.

**Indecent Exposure** · 12-29-2006 02:11 AM

I dont think the kids even reading the therad by now, im reckoning hes taken all your advice
put it together, tried to hit on her, and received a painful slap 2 the face
first of all, if u wanna get laid, it dusnt matter if she ses no, go in guns blazing, go 4 it, u get rejected, hu carees
thers plenty more fish i nthe sea
if you see her as more than that and your looking for a relationship, ignore most of this shit lol,
dont think of it as a 2 month conquest,
take as long as you need, first you gotta get on tht frend level but dont go 2 far into it, cus ur gonna edn up in the "zone", the zone is the last place a man wants 2 b, once ur i tnhe frend zone, man u cnt get out, i had tht problem a cuple of eyrs back with a girl i really liked, in the end she told me if I'd told ehr how i felt 6 motnhs back, she wudnt have hesitated, but i was 2 much of a freiend now.
once ur in tht frend zone, you want to show your interest, girls love compliments
your sitting with her, dont fire in a cliche, about her eyes
but compliment something about her
just tell her you love her company, and shes such a n interesting character
nothing physical, something that shows her your a genuine guy, byut make sure your not lying, youve got 2 fell what your saying, and she'll feel your genuineness too
the thing is you dont need 2 b good looking, to get a girl, im nto saying u arent, but tis not even considered, if you know how to talk to a girl
also, interaction is 90% body language, alwyas look at her eyes, when shes tlking 2 u, smile i nthe ryt places, show her tht ur lsitening, that ur actually interested in her,
after the frend stage, jus ask if if she wants to go out sumtym, and ophrase it so if she ses no its not a rejection
do you get what i msaying?
and seriously, take your time, every transitional phase is worth the time it took you
and basically always leave her wanting more
always be the one says, im gonna ahve tol eave you there i have somewhere to be
you know what I mean?
and if shes not responsing, show a period of disinterest and she'll begin 2 miss your company and realise you eman more 2 her thn she first perceived
and dont be yourslef if yoruslef isnt the kind of girl she'd b into
thers plent of yourslef
every1 ses always be yourslef
i no for a fact thers lyk 7 versions of myslef
my fmaily self
my with the lads self
my with a girl i lyk slef
etc
Imran