OK, after shaking up the tree a bit, it is time I share my smoking history
I started at 19 as the friends I hung with were all smokers who were hooked. Except for this one guy who seemed to be able to smoke a pack in a few hours and not smoke for months. I first I could not stand it but as they say, if you can't beat them join them. We had the same interests apart from smoking. The only musicians in my little rural school.
I quit three years later but started again when I started my real job. All my bosses smoked and to keep up with the business ladder, I joined them.
Most the elite engineers in most companies I worked at smoked so I kept going.
When the first laws came into effect, I quit for a year. I started again when I realized I was left behind in the engineering department as most decisions were made outside while we smoked. So I started again.
A few years later I quit for six months. I quit socialising as well as all the people around me smoked when they went out. And an ex-smoker is very much annoyed by the smoke.
I spent the night at a friend’s house where she did not have AC. I could not sleep. It was 3 AM. I needed a cigarette so bad I was shaking. I went to the 24 hour store and bought a pack. I left it in the car and smoked 1 cigarette. I slept like a baby.
Three moths later, I went out and had a few beers with my friends who missed me going out with them. Smoke goes so well with beer. Mmmm. So I got the pack out. And smoked it all.
The CEO of my new job also smoked so, I kept going, talking shop outside and knowing business details my own boss and co-workers did not know about was kinda fun, I admit. Just climbing the ladder.
I went on business in Malaysia. They smoked inside (at work) there, yuk. So I smoked inside there as well just to bare with the humid hot stench.
20 years after I started, I smoke a half a pack a day and have quit 4-5 times.
I wrote this post as someone who understands the cigarette conundrum.
People are addicted. It’s hard to quit. We should all quit. But in the meantime we have people who smoke. In my area we are fewer and fewer more in major cities. In small towns, it’s different.
What really got me going is the way smokers in hospitals are treated. You smoke, it’s your problem. Get off the property. You are a patient here? Too bad. We will not provide for your situation. They won’t give smokers anything to alleviate their addiction while staying in. If you were a drug addict, they would…. Now, take your IV and just walk off the property. What a shame.
As for bars. In a large city. Removing smokers from the establishment does not create a conflict. In small rural towns, where bar addicts alone support the establishment (not much rotating business in rural towns), they have yet to replace lost patrons (which most of them smoke). The bars are empty, except for a few smokers/heavy drinkers loyal to the establishment. You can find them outside, in the rain, between beers. They haven’t quit yet. They are joined everyday by young people who start. It will never end it seems.
For schools, well they still have smokers there too. They just walk outside the property to do it. Meanwhile, no one cleans up after recess is over. When before, the janitor did (on school property). What a mess.
In restaurants. Well, as a smoker, I enjoy eating and not having to smell cigarettes from another smoker. That is good.
As far as smoking outside being OK, as far as it is away from people and doors. That is good. But when you are not allowed to shelter from the rain, well, can you just imagine the well meaning devil who thought about his one. Crazy bugerer.
When I quit (again). I probably will, I am not that much pro-smoke (I‘ll check out the info on how to quit, again), I will still have the same thoughts about the whole situation even when I find myselft gradually hating smokers (as I did the last times I quit).
Back on track…
Cheers!
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