Get ready for a LONG reply..
I'm not even sure where to start, so I'll just start talking:
I'm sure folks are sick of hearing me say this, but I've been on DV for a long time. I've noticed a particular pattern, and it's usually something that boils down to Staff vs. Community vs. New Members. In the past, new members were pretty much abused "n00bz" and that was that. And when I challenged it, I got shot down (not counting original owner icedawg and admin Seeker; they were proponents of new members and ended up spear-heading the Dream Guide program). Anyway, once the site was purchased, suddenly "n00bz" became a commodity. I wanted to include that little background info.
I went to a battered women's shelter from 2006-2008, then couldn't really afford internet or time or both from 2008-2009 when I met the most amazing man in the world. Put simply, for that time frame, I couldn't devote my time to being on staff. In that time, DV was purchased and sold twice, and the forum feel changed. The upside to all this was the fact that Alex became a super cool owner and active member, at least on irc from what I can tell. When I joined staff again a couple years ago, I noticed several huge things happening, good and bad: Dream Views Academy was a thing! Forum majorly hacked by Russians, wtf Massively active Dream Guide Program (thanks to Matte) Mods and Admins DEAD 
Can't say I was surprised, DV has always been a fluctuating roller coaster ride, even before icedawg originally sold it. I remember back in 2004/2005, (and I'm sure folks are sick of hearing about this too), some DV staff and DV community wanted to "take back the forums!" because the newbies were annoying. They would post questions that had already been answered in older threads. But the forum was growing, so a question about Dream Signs, for example, might have been bumped backwards 3 pages at this point. When a forum gets huge, suddenly it's better to start a new thread about an old topic, than it is to necro. A tough balance, but nevertheless it's a thing.
I'm straying from Chimpertainment's points, I know, but I had a lot to say about alot of things, so please bear with me. When he mentioned that his advice was ignored, that was me. He sent me a long PM about a current staff member. He mentioned that the particular staff member shouldn't be on staff anymore. He made good points, but I didn't agree with them. I'm sorry, I should have replied to you Chimp, and I guess I didn't because I knew that I would basically be telling you that "No, I don't agree with you." There's been alot of talk lately about "staff transparency" and I can't help but to feel that it's more of a relief of symptoms than of the actual issue. I WANT to explain all staff actions, and at the same time, I feel like it can be a bad idea sometimes. Usually, (meaning my experience on this forum), when community members want staff transparency, it's because a member (or better yet, multiple members) have been banned. Multiple ACTIVE members. I know it looks scary, and as I'm typing this, saying "oh that looks scary!" sounds very condescending, but I mean this sincerely. More than a few members who were core community on DreamViews IRC have been permanently banned. If I may, I would like to take a moment and direct attention to the fact that I banned them. It has to be said, because I don't believe that scapegoating is right. Anyway, these bans were based on multiple criteria, but mainly:
- Already having multiple infractions and/or previous bans
- Being a toxic force with respect to staff (example: publicly criticizing staff promotions [remember Seroquel? At least he criticized staff promotions in IRC queries, of course he ultimately got permabanned for imperative suicide statements towards another member.).)
- And finally, members who took advantage of the fact that our IRC burped in a big, bad way, and kicked/banned members of staff, and then +oped their pals, got varying degrees of banishment. "Oh, it was a joke, staff shouldn't take it so seriously." Only problem with that thinking is the fact that it WOULD have been ok and funny, had it not been a form of revenge from members who were already in trouble for having been previously infracted over the years for varying reasons (even before gab and I were admins. Something to consider guys).
Ok, to get straight to it, this sounds like alot of mess, and what makes it worse is the fact that rules in the past were not enforced at all by staff, and now they are. I'm not against a balance between the 2 extremes. To be honest, I'm kinda waiting for some of the issues to bury themselves before working out compromises. This isn't an easy job for ANY of our current staff. They have to do the extreme mod work AND find a way of communicating with everyone in a way that follows the rules, they have to find a way to respect past and current staff as well as honor current AND old community, and they have to do it all in between their real life jobs and sleep.
It seems like the biggest complaint is democracy. Community and retired staff members want to have a huge say so in how the forum is run. I personally don't see a problem with this, but it needs to be done in a proper manner. Staff has to follow protocol, so same to y'all. Members want to make changes, that's wonderful! I have 2 ears and they work well. PMing me is fine, I do listen, believe this. But when folks wait for a massive rebellion to occur, then get pissy and THEN suddenly have demands; OR, members come up and tell me who I shouldn't have on staff, then I see that as only criticisms without solutions. And my motto is: if you ain't part of the solution, then you is part of the problem. Don't forget, this forum ultimately belongs to Alex/Keebali union type thing. We have limited resources as volunteer staff. So it's probably a good idea to help us. And don't tell me that unbanning previously banned members are the solution. I really don't like getting PMs about this kind of thing. Those banned members may make some members want to stay, but they also make members leave. Do you have the exact ratio? I'll listen big time to that, if you do have those figures. Otherwise, please don't drudge up previously banned members. It decreases morale and I don't appreciate it.
To end this novella, and I love this saying, "you catch more flies with honey than vinegar." I know I have used vinegar in the past from time to time. And it is wrong. I have seen past staff use this method too and I hate it. I will endeavor to use more sugar from now on as well. Also, keep in mind please that rules are rules, so if it's an issue of implementing rules in a nicer way, then that's already solved. Because that's an easy fix and should have been fixed yesterday. But, if it's an issue of not liking the already established rules, then y'all's beef is with the owners. Don't make it about me and gab, and us having no accountability. DreamViews has always been this weird and unique balance of ontopic lucid dream talk, and community weirdness (in a good way). I would really hate to see either one diminish. But as long as I'm around, I'll fight for both.
Sincerely, Ophelia
PS. PM me and I WILL reply. Even if I don't like it, I'll still reply, ok?
PP.SS. I'd love to talk to you about them anchor and launchpad ideas, GavinGill. Whenever you have the time.
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