This question is probably more for the women on the forum but guys feel free to chime in:

I went to a ballroom dance program last night and one of the female dancers was doing a slow rhumba dance routine. She came up to me before hand and was soo happy and proud of herself.. she had made her sexy dance costume and was telling me all about it.

The tables were set up around the dance floor in an "L" shape. There were about 80 people in attendance and I was sitting at the very last table by the wall at the end of the "L".

As she danced towards me, her partner spun her and, when he grabbed her around the waist, her top stopped moving before her body did and I and the lady next to me got a full view of her nipple for about 2 seconds! Lucking she is a small woman and small breasted and the dress panel covering her breast moved right back into place. I'm not even sure anyone else saw it happen. Also they were videotaping the show and thankfully her back was at the camera when this happened!!

Ok.. here's my question!

Do I tell her what I saw? The only reason I hesitate to tell her is that she was soo happy afterwards and was so proud of herself. She came running over to me and I couldn't bring myself to ruin that moment (or the memory of her dance) for her.

I have done such a ballroom dance performance and I know that if I had been told that my boob had came out I would be mortified and I don't know if I could ever do another show or face the people who had watched it. Even if I was ASSURED that probably no one else had seen it.. it would still haunt me.

My husband (who wasn't there) says I'm being too sensitive about the whole thing and I should have just told her but I don't think guys understand. I asked him how he'd feel if someone came up to him and told him that his dick had popped out while he was dancing and he just laughed.

Part of me wants to tell her in case she ever decides to wear that costume again.. she may not be so lucky the next time and may flash a whole audience.

I could tell the owner of the studio (who also instructs and does competitions) and ask her to mention in a nonchalant way that for "security" reasons she may want to add a strap to the back of her costume to keep the breast panels in place.

I feel I need to let her know but I'd hate to ruin her memory of that night.

Opinions please!