Thread: Who's single?

...that's exactly what I was thinking after I read that reply. The "lol !" is what really threw me off.



Looking back I see now that my past relationships were very unhealthy.

These days I prefer not to get involved with anyone mostly because it's just easier.

I'm not sure what I am currently. I tried getting close with someone but the circumstances have made it very difficult. Perhaps going back to keeping to myself would be the best for both of us.

The word love is scary to me, even though I consider myself to be a very loving person by nature. As soon as someone I'm romantically interested in uses that word, I am reminded of where that has led in the past. No thanks.

Best advice: know what you want, take your time, don't settle, and NEVER try to force something to work that isn't.

I force everything all the time, that's why I'm single.

edit:

Fuck time.

reedit:

Fuck distance too.

^ If you fuck time and space, what does that leave?

Originally Posted by Darkmatters

^ If you fuck time and space, what does that leave?

The birth of infinite possibility.

I'm single, and I pretend that my pillow is my future girlfriend while I'm falling asleep.

Oh, how sad....

Being shy is annoying!

Originally Posted by Ekyu

I'm single, and I pretend that my pillow is my future girlfriend while I'm falling asleep.

Oh, how sad....

Being shy is annoying!

I know that feel, bro.

Originally Posted by Ekyu

I'm single, and I pretend that my pillow is my future girlfriend while I'm falling asleep.

Oh, how sad....

Being shy is annoying!

Sometimes I make a wish in hope that the pillow would turn into a person and love you back no matter what.

I'm single because Christ commands me too. I know how strange that sounds but. I have been able to get a lot of things done being single rather interested in her affairs which only complicate my mind that has been shattered by a psychosis. I don't have time for you me and God at the same time. I choose God that would never forsake or break my heart.

^Sounds exactly like my ex's mindset

Yes. One real relationship in my 23 years. I'm not too fussed about it, except for sometimes I have mini-breakdowns and fap myself to sleep.
But other than that, I feel sorry for people who basically can't function without being in a relationship, their happiness is tied to being with someone else.
I don't want to be like that. I find other interests to occupy my time and try to improve myself, someone will come along eventually that fits me well.
Or maybe they won't, either way, I'm not going out and looking for someone to be in a relationship with.

I just became single after a 4 year relationship. Like a breath of air after being buried in sand.......she was nice though; relationships can just become a too constricting with people who have different 'needs' and values, in my opinion.

I hope all of you understand. That being alone has so many benefits. I didn't realize it even when I made this thread....But for some reason I just started to forget about my ex....I care for her but I would rather God care for her then me burden her with my problems.

Originally Posted by sonicwhite

I hope all of you understand. That being alone has so many benefits. I didn't realize it even when I made this thread....But for some reason I just started to forget about my ex....I care for her but I would rather God care for her then me burden her with my problems.

Being in a relationship has so many benefits. They both have advantages and disadvantages.

Originally Posted by TimeDragon97

I know that feel, bro.

Feelings sorry for yourselves isn't gonna make things better.

I'm single and have been loving it for the past year or two, but I think I am ready for a relationship again!.... Ladies?

My last relationship was 7 years ago during my sophomore year of high school. We only dated for 3 months. Best year of my life. Met a girl, skateboarded all the time, good group of friends, and started smoking weed. Your typical high school student lol. I dont think I was ready for a relationship. I want one now, but dont think I can at the moment.

Not single here, this is the longest relationship I've ever been in (4 months so far)
My shortest relationship was 4 days and second was 2 weeks (and even that one was long distance)
So technically I didn't have a real relationship till 10th grade.

I guess being single and not both have their perks.