Dreamviews Anonymous Confessions & Opinions Thread

[Linkzelda]

Zebrah? Anyone? annnnnnnnnnyone? Wait. Boyfriend. Girlfriend. Never mind, but wait, it could just be part of an elaborate scheme. ======== I pretend I like raisins but really, I do not. When I see someone eating a raisin, in my head they're eating moles. Like that mole from the mole in Austin Powers. MOLE MOLE MOLE MOLE 5/25/2013 3:38 AM I can be really irrationally passive aggressive sometimes. I took an interior design class once and the teacher pissed me off. In my completely thought-out way of how to express my anger, I drew in a random television in every closet during our floor plan assignments. All 30 floor plans. My sister also once pissed me off, so I hid tuna in her room. I'm starting to think maybe my strategies aren't so effective... Your mysterious confessor, Z 5/25/2013 5:47 PM

[Linkzelda]

Chicken is really not that great when it's not fried. I feel nuts for thinking this because everyone I know thinks that it's BEST when it's not fried, that frying it is just a fast food thing, but fuck that. Fried chicken is the best by far. There's nothing really wrong with other chicken either, it just doesn't wow me. It's perfectly edible, but I never have any desire to eat it again. 5/26/2013 2:23 PM .

[AURON]

COD is really not that great when it's online. I feel nuts for thinking this because everyone I know thinks that it's BEST when it's online, that playing it is just a casual gaming thing, but fuck that. COD is the worst by far. There's nothing really wrong with other shooters either, it just doesn't wow me. It's perfectly playable, but I never have any desire to play it again. 5/26/2013 2:23 PM Auronized

[Jeff777]

Jeff, well now that it's done, wanna give us some names? That didn't go at all as planned.. I intended for it to turn into a (who dun it?) kinda thing... which failed. Alas, I've only had sex with one member here and have kissed just one other. The first was never on staff and the second was an admin at one point in time. Both had long hair, lighter voices and lacked the noodly appendage characteristic of males. Sorry to disappoint. However! I did take a photo of me and Man Of Steel kayaking with our shirts off while yanking on our teets together.

[DeletePlease]

However! I did take a photo of me and Man Of Steel kayaking with our shirts off while yanking on our teets together. I need this.

[tommo]

Do people here regularly meet up or something? I thought it was a joke lol I have no idea what anyone's voice sounds like on here, well a couple of members, but only one female. Actually I may know what Nina's voice sounds like, but maybe that's just from my imagination. Oh wait.... yes I see.... you didn't say female, you said lacking a penis. Was it that tranny guy was extremely feminine? Don't lie, I know it was.

[DeletePlease]

It was me. I underwent surgery for Jeff and it was worth it. 64 inches deep worth it.

[Linkzelda]

Oh wait.... yes I see.... you didn't say female, you said lacking a penis. Was it that tranny guy was extremely feminine? Don't lie, I know it was. I'm not trying to force or impose anything on you, but "tranny" is a bit of an offensive word to the transgender and transsexual community. There are a few people on DV who are transgender people and post-op transsexual people, and they might not take what you said lightly. (Maybe you're just saying it loosely and didn't have any kind of resentment towards them), just saying. That didn't go at all as planned.. I intended for it to turn into a (who dun it?) kinda thing... which failed. Alas, I've only had sex with one member here and have kissed just one other. The first was never on staff and the second was an admin at one point in time. Both had long hair, lighter voices and lacked the noodly appendage characteristic of males. Sorry to disappoint. However! I did take a photo of me and Man Of Steel kayaking with our shirts off while yanking on our teets together. Did you do the kayaking to get Man of Steel to provide a Testimonial to one of your ad campaigns online? It was me. I underwent surgery for Jeff and it was worth it. 64 inches deep worth it. And 64 inches of potential rectal prolapse too, better start saving up for managing that too, big things like that in abrupt and vigorous motions aren't as well for your rectum to sustain. If you start bleeding, you probably won't be able to be compensated in a trial since you said it was worth it. ---------------------------------- I seriously need to get some time to draw some of these moments and confessions in this thread lol. sometimes i feel like people dont care for me or my company because the group f friends i used to hang out with doesnt sit near me or spend time with me away from school and it feels like they talk behind my back. I get that feeling online here sometimes as well and i dont think its entirely paranoia but i cant figure out who i pissed off or why. 5/29/2013 10:44 AM Maybe because you have a company that they're probably jealous of you. Maybe you're just exaggerating on how they see you now, or maybe you developed a certain attribute that made your friends dislike you. Who knows, and as for people using anonymity to talk behind people's back, I guess you can't really track everyone that does that. But why are you letting people's opinions about you affect the type of character you're living and feeling? I get that you just want to find the source of why people dislike you or aren't as interested in you so that you can resolve it and feel at ease again. And I don't know how much you value the memories of these people, so whatever intensity of bonding you have with them, it doesn't seem like both you and them aren't doing well in being good friends. Maybe these people probably have something that came up that made them stressed out and not have enough to focus on you. That's the thing with friends, it's hard finding friends that know how to get their shit together and still find a little time to hang out with those who are worth investing love and respect towards. And the ones who can't handle their own problems naturally pretend that things are okay, and the reasons for that are subjective. It doesn't seem like you're worried too much about your own situation (not the friend thing, the company and who you are as a person), and I'm guessing your company is going into a good path (or probably already is successful), but I don't think you should let something trivial as that get in your head. I know that it takes one person to make another have these feelings of insecurities, but if no one is attempting to communicate on why the hell no one is keeping in touch with each other, either attempt to talk to them and ask them how their lives are going and tell them what's on your mind, or just move on. Kids who's inform themselves of their p[ower. They're ok. They're do not do nothing evil/bad etc. but I don't like when they break the rules. I don't know why but It reminds me of that I haven't open 4chan since 2010. O_o At least I was just watching there Japanese anime girls characters... 5/30/2013 2:04 AM Oh goodness, you went to 4chan only to look at Japanese anime girl characters? What in the world is wrong with you? 4chan for innocent gawking at anime (and probably borderline ecchi anime)???? Right, nice one! You almost got me there. Despite the fact that most of my friends think that I want to date somebody that is incredibly sexy and naughty, I'm actually more interested in having a relationship with a girl of a more pure nature that involves a lot of romance rather than constant sex. It just annoys me that hardly anybody is like that these days and all the girls dress up for a fuck. 5/30/2013 6:20 AM You see, when you go into that mindset of finding a nice, soft-bodied, pure, innocent and sweet girl, I guess that's hard to come by because it's a bit too idealistic. Women are going to have strong sexual urges just like men from time to time, unless their sexual preference is where they rarely have romantic and/or sexual feelings or someone, or are Asexual. I'm guessing you don't mind occasional sex, since you prefer not to have constant sex. If you're aware of your sexual orientation(s)/preference(s), maybe you could go into forums that focus on that kind of preference, and find ways to find other sites that allow you to connect with others in your area rather than someone who's in New Zealand while you're Denver or something (just an example). I have a friend that went into a community related to her own situation, and they would have occasional meetings once, twice, or even frequently during the month where people just talk and learn from each other on how others prefer this orientation rather than others. And as for women dressing up for a fuck, I don't think it's really just that. Some women just want to feel confident in themselves and make themselves look good. Now how they do it might be a bit raunchy and skimpy, but some are just doing it to be eye-candy and nothing more. I don't think there's a time where a woman hasn't revel in the thought of flaunting their cuteness from time to time (which is probably "slutty" instead of "cute" for some people).

[paigeyemps]

Kids who's inform themselves of their p[ower. They're ok. They're do not do nothing evil/bad etc. but I don't like when they break the rules. I don't know why but It reminds me of that I haven't open 4chan since 2010. O_o At least I was just watching there Japanese anime girls characters... 5/30/2013 2:04 AM ??I really liking your gramming''? + '

[tommo]

Nothing against trannys, just didn't know it was a derogatory term. Frankly I don't care though either, this PC bs is never ending. Every 5 years a previously used term becomes offensive.

[Linkzelda]

I used to obsess over women i would meet on mmorpg games. After they ignored me because it was "just role play", I have developed a fear of getting to know people online. That makes it hard when I realize I really like a couple women on DV. My heart loves deeply and heals slowly. 6/2/2013 11:23 PM Don't feel bad, a few health potions and a level 90 in Herblore should do the trick in healing a broken heart.

[AURON]

I used to obsess over women i would meet on mmorpg games. After they ignored me because it was "just role play", I have developed a fear of getting to know people online. That makes it hard when I realize I really like a couple women on DV. My heart loves deeply and heals slowly. 6/2/2013 11:23 PM Fun fact: I "dated" someone on WoW. Turns out the chick showed me a fake picture...when I found out, she "broke up" with me. It's okay to have a fear of dating someone in an MMO, because you never know who the hell that blood elf Mage is. As for DV women, that's another story. They're more real per say, but distance is a MOFO. When you set your sights out for that one girl on this sight, don't forget to think about all the other girls who are closer and require less effort to get to.

[♥Mark]

So you're saying you wouldn't walk 500 miles.

[tommo]

Fuck emotional connection, effort required and distance from the person is the only thing that matters. (Bit of hyperbole, I get what ya saying Auron)

[Linkzelda]

Even though tommo was just playing around, he is kind of right with effort required and distance from the person is what matters as well. Whether you're talking to some DV woman you like or anyone in any online activity, both parties are technically giving each other what they could want. Also, depending on how much they reveal about themselves, being anonymous with their real lives gives them even more confidence to be more sexual or just more honest with their feelings to the other person. It gets to the point where if you climbed over being that other person's consolation filler, it's kind of hard to really want to think about actually meeting them (especially if they're far away from each other). You might have strong feelings to make plans to go somewhere, but subconsciously, if that person has things you like already and they're giving it to you online all at once, we would feel less inclined to consider really meeting them. It's really a battle thinking "I want to see them face-to-face and see if their values and beliefs are consistent to what they show online vs. But they're saying things that I want to hear that makes me feel at ease." It's funny how Auron mentioned to the poster with the confession that they should consider closer options, it reminds me of our instinctive urges to just hunt efficiently and seek more practicable and reachable choices. It might be sexism to some females, but it doesn't mean I'm saying women are just meat, it's just that those urges men have. They find someone that can help them and those they love that they have close ties and meetings with, and they have their own special trophies they can go to whenever if they're bored for a bit. "This one helps me when I'm in a huge pitfall" "This one gives me curiosity sexually" "This one helps me have a childlike demeanor that I repressed for so long now" "This one lets me think my thoughts out more and really makes me see myself for who I really am" Not saying that's how all men will be, but it's just a general idea we probably don't really give much thought on. Even women have their own labels too with people online and face-to-face. And for both, they can fantasize more on people on-line (which can also lead to disappointment if our expectations are too high), kind of like what Limerence is.

[Athylus]

I'd never date someone from dreamviews, but the idea is amusing. It's a strange experience to meet up with someone you don't actually personally know and fun as well. I've done it once and will never do so again.

[AURON]

It's funny how Auron mentioned to the poster with the confession that they should consider closer options, I've seen too many people get wrecked after putting all their commitment into something like this. I'd say if it was something casual, then by all means do whatever blows your hair back. But when things get really serious, that's when issues have the possibility of popping up. That doesn't mean I'm against dating on DV, it's just something I wouldn't advise trying unless you're in a situation where you can just physically be there from time to time. Maybe that's just me though. I really need to get that hugging, kissing, and hand holding in there.

[Athylus]

About my previous post, I actually would as long as there wouldn't be any commitment unlike Auron. Honestly I have more options to choose from, and much less far away. A quick meet-up would be awesome though.

[AURON]

About my previous post, I actually would as long as there wouldn't be any commitment unlike Auron. Honestly I have more options to choose from, and much less far away. A quick meet-up would be awesome though. "Do a DVer" is bucket list worthy.

[Athylus]

We will do that one day Auron, together or not. All in due time my friend.

[Arra]

It doesn't make sense to argue over whether a long distance relationship is worth it or not. It's completely subjective. If someone finds themselves involved in one, it's up to them to decide whether it's worth it or not. There's no right nor wrong answer. If you want to be with the person badly enough then it will feel worth the trouble, even if there's a possibility that will change with time. Since everything is negative so far, I'll mention there is a positive side to long distance relationships, particularly if you're able to visit one another occasionally. For one, you don't get sick of one another as easily as a regular couple would. Looking forward to the next visit is exhilarating. Finally being together after being apart for so long is an indescribably wonderful experience which people who have only had typical relationships will never have. Furthermore, the knowledge that you're both willing to go through all the effort increases closeness; the mutual desire to be together but not being able to ignites passion. Also, if you aren't with the person physically it becomes necessary to communicate a lot, which makes the relationship better, since you can't resort to physical acts to make up for a lack of communication. Lastly, it may sound harsh but it may be easier to break up with someone who is far away, since you don't need to worry about avoiding them afterward, it's easy to break off communication completely and everything doesn't remind you of them. (my boyfriend just flew back home today, trying to find positives I guess, it's hard to feel optimistic right now though =( Perhaps the posts relating to this topic should be moved to their own thread. The off-topic convo is getting long. :/

[Linkzelda]

Well, I did add in the original post that people can give their own opinions on the anonymous confessions, so it's not really off-topic (although I admit it can get TOO far like the HIV topic). And personally, I feel people actually discussing a bit is perfect filler for this thread, or like a long intermission before the next wave of confessions.. I mean, how often people make confessions is sporadic. There's days with no new updates, and other days where there's 3-4 good ones to consider drawing or talking about. But I agree that there's no right or wrong answer to long distance relationship, and I hope my implication or the others' implications wasn't us thinking it's this way or not. And personally moving the opinions to another thread would just make us look like any poor sob going through relationships with others online and in real life.

[Linkzelda]

This really hot girl posted a picture of herself on the pictures thread. Dear attractive female, please haunt my dreams. 6/11/2013 3:14 AM I really wish my dad would stop wearing a speedo when he goes swimming. 6/11/2013 4:51 PM Mental image.

[Maeni]

Dude, people in general need to stop wearing speedos when they go swimming.

[Linkzelda]

I don't understand the point of the "Post the first word that pops into your head" thread, and cannot fathom why it still exists. It's the most mundane thread I've ever seen remain active for so long. So much so that I get a twinge of irritation whenever I come across its title. It's not even a fun game like some other pointless threads, it's completely thoughtless and I can't imagine what's going through people's minds when they choose to post in it. Please, just stop. It's time for that thread to die. 6/12/2013 3:37 PM Senseless Banter is too senseless