LOL. I live in oceanside. I know what you mean orange county people are different and weird. If I were you I would stop wasting energy on things that are meaningless to you. If nothing about the girl excites you except your physical attraction to her maybe you are setting yourself up from a complicated trap of emotional drama. It's up to you I guess. I'm not really a shallow type of person. I actually care little about people's physical appearance. I care more about who they really are as a person. I guess I'm really weird, but I don't care.