Good luck Chicken! But I'll think a No Fap and No Sex challenge for you will be good. The whole purpose is not to reach orgasm for a month and of course restraining yourself too!
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Good luck Chicken! But I'll think a No Fap and No Sex challenge for you will be good. The whole purpose is not to reach orgasm for a month and of course restraining yourself too!
I don't think my boyfriend agrees :shadewink:Quote:
Originally Posted by Carrot
Also the challenge is about me and has nothing to do with him. Sex is important to keep your relationship healthy and happy so I see no benefits in having no sex.
Then you should probably try it when it's possible to do so. Because you might not feel the effect of the challenge if you had sex every week while having this challenge.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chicken
I was wondering about that, what were the effects on you, as a woman?Quote:
Originally Posted by Carrot
My obsessive-compulsive disorder was severe at that time when I first started it, so I believe the challenge had helped me in making it better. Because one of the symptoms I have was sexual images/thoughts. I'll start doubting that whatever I type to contain sexual words, and pictures I see to contain sexual images. Having the challenge helped me to cut down those thoughts.Quote:
Originally Posted by Chicken
Other than that, I like the idea that I was refraining myself from doing something because I want to. There are many things in life that we're forced not to do because we don't have a choice, regardless we want to or not. It makes me feel helpless with situations. But the challenge gave me the thought that I'm capable to be in control of my life because I can stop doing something I like because I want to. Maybe some kind of reverse psychology?
And because of that challenge, I have ideas of having one month challenge too. I haven't decide on what to challenge for a month yet. But I'll say this challenge is by far the best we have. :) Now I'm keen on testing my limit, like taking away items of comfort for a month, to stop eating something I like for a month, etc.
Rubbing? And fapping your bf shouldn't be a problem, as you are not the one reaching the orgasm. Then again, I don't think it is necessary to refrain from having sex with others. If you have the chance, just grab it :P (pun intended)Quote:
Originally Posted by Chicken
I believe the internet slang is 'schlicking'Quote:
Originally Posted by Chicken
Schlicking it is! :cheeky:Quote:
Originally Posted by Pensive Patrick
The challenge comes down to no schlicking during the week and one time sex in the weekend (I'am only with my bf in the weekend) for a month.
Almost one week down (the easiest because my hormones have been on a low level)
Wish me luck :shadewink:
*Wonders about the purpose of Chicken's challenge*
Oh well. Good luck! :)
Still succesful, less than a week to go. Then I'm going to take a break from the challenge
Guess to make the 1 weekly sex better... ;pQuote:
Originally Posted by Carrot
True enough.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wolfwood
But she might not learn anything psychologically. It's the abstaining that's giving one new thoughts.
The purpose of my challenge is to get real sexy, naughty dreams :cheeky:Quote:
Originally Posted by Carrot
Scince you are a girl you should have no problem getting the real thing :chuckle:Quote:
Originally Posted by Chicken
But then again, you have a boyfriend. Which i presume is best in the end anyways.
I've been inspired by this thread. Especially by those who saw an improvements in their life.
DAY 1: SUCCESS
Wish me luck as i know it will not be easy for someone who has been masturbating daily for the last 2 years or so :)
I think setting small goals is the best way to go about this.
So how many days are you setting for your goal? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Blazer
2 weeks, after that I will see how I'm going and decide whether I want to continue.Quote:
Originally Posted by Carrot
Good luck! :shadewink:Quote:
Originally Posted by Blazer
Good to see that you've found inspiration to do this. I had been masturbating for six years, and I'm currently at day 74 of abstaining. In other words: "yoo can do it!!" Good luck!Quote:
Originally Posted by Blazer
LOL :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by Freda
You are right about the boyfriend, it is the best. On the other hand, I have nothing to compare it with because he is the only one I had/have sex with, for 14 years now!
Lucid dreaming is great because I can have sex with other people and not feel guilty or do harm to my relationship.
Succes to you Blazer :)
14 years? And still dating?
:-?
Bloody hell, mate. That must be difficult.Quote:
Originally Posted by RemoteVicinity
I think he has seen the light.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wolfwood
To add on, I still haven't fap yet since the end of my challenge.
I think my electricity wasn't working during the darkness of my abstinence. No light for me in there - only when I go back out the door I came in.
Yes and very happy :) We don't live together and it is working out great!Quote:
Originally Posted by melanieb
No fights over doing the dishes and stuff :lol: