Thread: Do you have a fetish?

Originally Posted by Ekyu

i'm available for a relationship littlezoe! *hint hint
Hmm, probably something wrong with me if im starting to look for a girlfriend on a lucid dream forum.

Nah it's okay, I have thoughts of just grabbing one person from DV and make him/her my partner. All of you seemed so nice.

Originally Posted by Ekyu

Hmm, probably something wrong with me if im starting to look for a girlfriend on a lucid dream forum.

What's wrong with being wrong together?

Originally Posted by Ekyu

i'm available for a relationship littlezoe! *hint hint
Hmm, probably something wrong with me if im starting to look for a girlfriend on a lucid dream forum.

Lol jk,

Originally Posted by dutchraptor

Lol jk,

Yah right.

I've been posting photos of my sister all along.

I think the picture is gonna bring me nightmares tonight!

Originally Posted by Singularity125

The sex part of that doesn't interest me, but way back when Aly was talking about melding with someone on an energy level, that practically sent shivers down my spine... probably because being asexual doesn't stop me from wanting an emotional, romantic relationship. Plus the trippy stuff like that is always kinda cool. Half the stuff Aly's posted in here seriously got the gears turning.

I don't think about wanting a relationship often... probably because it's hard to explain to most people on the street that you want to go out, but don't want sex. Heh. I don't even bother trying to find someone...

foreveralone.jpeg

No surprises there. I never felt a true sexual attraction to someone until I was 20. I'm demihetero... and I used to have trouble forming close bonds. Though, now I can look at random guys and still think about how they're sexually appealing, but it still feels more like just a new attribute to my aesthetic appreciation. X) I'm still not totally sure where I fall on the homosexual scale yet as sometimes it seems like I'm fluctuating, but I'm definitely panromantic.

Originally Posted by Alyzarin

No surprises there. I never felt a true sexual attraction to someone until I was 20. I'm demihetero... and I used to have trouble forming close bonds. Though, now I can look at random guys and still think about how they're sexually appealing, but it still feels more like just a new attribute to my aesthetic appreciation. X) I'm still not totally sure where I fall on the homosexual scale yet as sometimes it seems like I'm fluctuating, but I'm definitely panromantic.

What's that?

I'm 22... and I've never even dated anyone. It's not often that I actually feel lonely without a mate, but when I do, it hits HARD. Eh, I've thought about panromanticism a bit. As in, if there's no sex involved anyway, I can probably find caring, cuddly guys, too. I don't actually know if I would enjoy that though. *has never experimented with anything* xD

Originally Posted by Carrot

Spoiler for I have something to say too:

Spoiler for Oh wait you're stilll here?:

I wondered what's the reason I like controlling my bladder to full before releasing it. Full bladder gives me a "tight" feeling.

Yeah, urinating and the number 2 lead to high parasympathetic nervous activation making you feel well relaxed. I certainly notice the good feeling from it.

Originally Posted by Singularity125

...don't know exactly what you mean by "new level", but I probably fall into that category.

ANYWAY, enough talk on that for now. It's embarrassing. xD There's a couple other things I'd wanted to talk about, but forgot to. I guess there is one other thing I do, but it's not a fetish, more of a habit? I dunno. Basically I like to do energy work here and there, as the only remotely "Paranormal" (though really it's not, just moving energy within your own body) thing I've had any success with. Well, I wouldn't want to exclude any part of my body from energy work, so... ...What? It feels good.

And now for things that aren't fetishes for me at all... at least not in a sexual way. Namely:



The sex part of that doesn't interest me, but way back when Aly was talking about melding with someone on an energy level, that practically sent shivers down my spine... probably because being asexual doesn't stop me from wanting an emotional, romantic relationship. Plus the trippy stuff like that is always kinda cool. Half the stuff Aly's posted in here seriously got the gears turning.

I don't think about wanting a relationship often... probably because it's hard to explain to most people on the street that you want to go out, but don't want sex. Heh. I don't even bother trying to find someone...

foreveralone.jpeg

Platonic relationships can be found! ^_^

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

Yeah, urinating and the number 2 lead to high parasympathetic nervous activation making you feel well relaxed. I certainly notice the good feeling from it.

It has been proven that men enjoy going to do the toilet more than women becuase the prostate gland is stimulated in men.

Do u guys have that aswell when u go to the toilet, u get this cold shiver?

Originally Posted by Carrot

What's that?

It means you can't feel sexually attracted to someone (the opposite sex in this case) without first forming a strong emotional bond. It's weird, it's practically like a light switch.... Once you notice it on the people who you feel that bond with, it goes from just seeing them like anyone else to immediately finding them really sexy. At least, that's how it works for me.

Originally Posted by Singularity125

I'm 22... and I've never even dated anyone. It's not often that I actually feel lonely without a mate, but when I do, it hits HARD. Eh, I've thought about panromanticism a bit. As in, if there's no sex involved anyway, I can probably find caring, cuddly guys, too. I don't actually know if I would enjoy that though. *has never experimented with anything* xD

I'm only a year behind you. :/ I've never dated anyone either. And I ALWAYS feel lonely. Panromanticism without pansexuality is a curse. >w< Some days I don't mind, but on others I feel like I would definitely want to have a girlfriend more than a boyfriend, but I would want it to be a relationship with an asexual girl. Which sounds great, except I'm also a very sexual person, and since I actually do find some guys attractive it feels like it'd be kind of a sucky to just give up sex. X)

Originally Posted by dutchraptor

It has been proven that men enjoy going to do the toilet more than women becuase the prostate gland is stimulated in men.

Oh, I've really felt that lately hehe.

Originally Posted by Singularity125

Haha, you're silly sometimes, Carrot. I'm glad simply to have you as a friend.

I wouldn't be looking in that part of the world anyways... long-distance relationships really suck. I just want someone nearby... Someone to cuddle. I like the close physical contact, just not the idea of actual sex.

Sensuality over sexuality. I know what you mean... back massaging, cuddling, soothing voices and whatnot.

Originally Posted by Singularity125

I'm 22... and I've never even dated anyone. It's not often that I actually feel lonely without a mate, but when I do, it hits HARD. Eh, I've thought about panromanticism a bit. As in, if there's no sex involved anyway, I can probably find caring, cuddly guys, too. I don't actually know if I would enjoy that though. *has never experimented with anything* xD

Well generally liking both genders is just bisexuality, I'm capable of that but I find it hard to go beyond that... *Shrugs*

I'm 20 this year and I've never dated anyone. It's hard explaining about my sexuality in my country.

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

Yeah, urinating and the number 2 lead to high parasympathetic nervous activation making you feel well relaxed. I certainly notice the good feeling from it.

I wasn't referring to urinating if you noticed.

Originally Posted by dutchraptor

It has been proven that men enjoy going to do the toilet more than women becuase the prostate gland is stimulated in men.

Then why does it seem that women visit the toilet more frequently than men?

If I ever came across a girl with an epic voice.... that'd trump everything for me. Bit shallow, but... I loveeeee a good voice.

Originally Posted by Carrot

I wasn't referring to urinating if you noticed.

Um, err,


Thinking about it....given I get intense ASMR, I do place a lot of attractiveness in sensuality over sexuality. It produces more of a sedated effect rather than raging effect. Having someone play with my hair is instant bliss.

Originally Posted by Alyzarin

It means you can't feel sexually attracted to someone (the opposite sex in this case) without first forming a strong emotional bond. It's weird, it's practically like a light switch.... Once you notice it on the people who you feel that bond with, it goes from just seeing them like anyone else to immediately finding them really sexy. At least, that's how it works for me.

I'm only a year behind you. :/ I've never dated anyone either. And I ALWAYS feel lonely. Panromanticism without pansexuality is a curse. >w< Some days I don't mind, but on others I feel like I would definitely want to have a girlfriend more than a boyfriend, but I would want it to be a relationship with an asexual girl. Which sounds great, except I'm also a very sexual person, and since I actually do find some guys attractive it feels like it'd be kind of a sucky to just give up sex. X)

That's a little confusing. xD But there's always open relationships. No, really. My closest real-life friend is in a consensual three-way relationship thing. It's definitely tricky, but if anyone can make it work, they can. Just... find an asexual girl and a hot guy who are both willing to do that, I suppose.

Originally Posted by Singularity125

Just... find an asexual girl and a hot guy who are both willing to do that, I suppose.

Hehe, it has sort of just clicked as to why Aly loves cross dressers. Blending the above. ;p

Originally Posted by Singularity125

That's a little confusing. xD But there's always open relationships. No, really. My closest real-life friend is in a consensual three-way relationship thing. It's definitely tricky, but if anyone can make it work, they can. Just... find an asexual girl and a hot guy who are both willing to do that, I suppose.

Tell me about it. An open relationship would be... interesting.... I've thought about it before. I used to kind of want to be in a quad. I think that's more of me just wanting to try all kinds of crazy stuff though. I don't think I would ever want to have more than one partner in a serious relationship. Who knows, though. Life is never quite what you expect.

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

Hehe, it has sort of just clicked as to why Aly loves cross dressers. Blending the above. ;p

Oh god, they're on to me. >w<

Oh, Aly, you always surprise and amuse me. xD Someday, when I've got the time and money, I'd love to just chill out in person with you. I think it'd be cool. ...or does that sound stalkerish? >.<

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

Having someone play with my hair is instant bliss.

Girls used to do that to me when I was young.

You know in class, sitting on the floor listening to the teacher's talking and their hands were bored.

Originally Posted by Carrot

Girls used to do that to me when I was young.

You know in class, sitting on the floor listening to the teacher's talking and their hands were bored.

Yesss, at secondary school, girls only used to do that spontaneously to my hair.... when I had no friggin hair. Only because they liked touching 0.5 shaved... like a hedgehog.

I wouldn't pay for sex, but I'd pay for someone to play with my hair and speak softly to get ASMR. A little sad? Probably.

Originally Posted by Singularity125

Oh, Aly, you always surprise and amuse me. xD Someday, when I've got the time and money, I'd love to just chill out in person with you. I think it'd be cool. ...or does that sound stalkerish? >.<

It doesn't sound stalkerish. I'd love to hang out one day. I think it'd be cool to meet a lot of people from DV. We're all so close here.

DV Party! Arrange it. Date it. Do it.

Oh yes, that would be awesome! But I think we're spread across basically the whole world. Who could really afford the plane tickets? xD Ah, someday, though...