Thread: Do you have a fetish?

I've never done a DEILD before, and I've only done WILDs by accident, and they didn't really teach me much in the way of repeating the experiences. I really should start practicing at it again.... It would be a nice skill to have. I've woken up a few times and kept still with my eyes closed like you're supposed to for DEILD, but nothing ever happened. What's the trick to it?

Wake up, stay still with eyes closed (not necessary but it gives that advantage), Let your body lightly paralyze but dont focus on it. Recall the first scene that comes into your mind, start talking to people and feeling things around you everynow and then wonder if it is a dream. The hard part is trying to lose focus of your body but still stay focused enough to not fall into a normal sleep. Best tip I can give is let it happen and dont focus on your real body but on your dream body. It takes time but I truly believe that this is the superior technique, good luck

Yep, and remember that sometimes an alarm going off for a fixed duration doesn't actually wake you from the dream.... so you may believe you're awake, laying still, waiting for dream re-entry.... but you're already in the dream and never left; the dream world merely changed.

Originally Posted by dutchraptor

Wake up, stay still with eyes closed (not necessary but it gives that advantage), Let your body lightly paralyze but dont focus on it. Recall the first scene that comes into your mind, start talking to people and feeling things around you everynow and then wonder if it is a dream. The hard part is trying to lose focus of your body but still stay focused enough to not fall into a normal sleep. Best tip I can give is let it happen and dont focus on your real body but on your dream body. It takes time but I truly believe that this is the superior technique, good luck

Thanks! I guess I need to work on my visualization then.... I've managed to almost enter a dream that way a couple times but it's mainly because I was already so tired that I was just kind of deliriously thinking out scenes. I'll have to look up a good guide for it....

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

Yep, and remember that sometimes an alarm going off for a fixed duration doesn't actually wake you from the dream.... so you may believe you're awake, laying still, waiting for dream re-entry.... but you're already in the dream and never left; the dream world merely changed.

How the hell are you supposed to get around that? XD Hmmm.... Will doing a reality check that doesn't require movement distract you from it and ruin the chance?

Since when did WILD and DEILD been classed as a fetish? (I must have led a sheltered life - no wonder everyone wants to learn. )
Mine must be WBTB then.

Oh, and the 'heart' pic. by the way. (Minus the toy gun I hasten to add! )

WILD and DEILD are my fetishes. Actually, any kind of conscious removal from the body gets me going pretty easily.

Yup I love the feeling of of my body becoming slightly paralyzed and getting that falling feeling, it makes me feel really unusual.

Originally Posted by Alyzarin

WILD and DEILD are my fetishes. Actually, any kind of conscious removal from the body gets me going pretty easily.

Have you tried hypnosis as a fetish?

You sound like you'd really be into it... There are hypnotists that fetishize based on the mind control theme alone, or the body control theme, or both. And you could do the whole thing solo if you wanted, splitting your mind into two voices or personas, one dominant, the other submissive.

Originally Posted by Abra

Have you tried hypnosis as a fetish?

You sound like you'd really be into it... There are hypnotists that fetishize based on the mind control theme alone, or the body control theme, or both. And you could do the whole thing solo if you wanted, splitting your mind into two voices or personas, one dominant, the other submissive.

The first time I ever got into mild sleep paralysis was when I tried self hypnosis, ever since I've loved experimenting with it. I used to have an audio recording where someone would hypnotize you, then after a while he would tell you to fly around a tropical island and picture the most beautifull woman/man you can think, its truly an amzing experience. If I find the tape I'll post it.

Originally Posted by dutchraptor

The first time I ever got into mild sleep paralysis was when I tried self hypnosis, ever since I've loved experimenting with it. I used to have an audio recording where someone would hypnotize you, then after a while he would tell you to fly around a tropical island and picture the most beautifull woman/man you can think, its truly an amzing experience. If I find the tape I'll post it.

The former please!

Hahaha I agree robstar, I only posted that incase

On a more serious note I suppose you could convert the tape to an Mp3 format and upload it?

Its already online I believe, I will have to find it. Might be hard though cause there is loads a bullshit on slef hypnosis online but I'll try

Originally Posted by Abra

Have you tried hypnosis as a fetish?

You sound like you'd really be into it... There are hypnotists that fetishize based on the mind control theme alone, or the body control theme, or both. And you could do the whole thing solo if you wanted, splitting your mind into two voices or personas, one dominant, the other submissive.

I've had hypnosis as a fetish for a long time, but I've never actually tried it. I don't know how easily I could really be hypnotized, though.... My mind is resistant to such trance states. But I would absolutely love to give it a shot.

It takes a while to become hypnotized by audio alone. The first few nights you will just listen to the audio but after a few nights you will antisipate it more and take in what is being said more clearly, patience is key.

Originally Posted by Alyzarin

I've had hypnosis as a fetish for a long time, but I've never actually tried it. I don't know how easily I could really be hypnotized, though.... My mind is resistant to such trance states. But I would absolutely love to give it a shot.

The depth to which you are hypnotizable depends mostly on your desire and willingness to go under. You choose your own resistance. It helps to know in advance what to expect from the trance. There are plenty of files online that focus solely on inducing trance to hypnosis beginners, just practicing relaxing the body (and achieving the physical state of trance), and perhaps opening the mind to new possibilities (without actively suggesting anything--though a common suggestion for inductions is that you will go under more easily next time). And there are also files which provide scripts, so you know exactly what the suggestions will be.

If you've succeeded at WILD (I rarely do), then you're in good shape for going into trance. 'Cause you have to go through deep sleep (alpha>theta>delta>theta>alpha) to get to the dreaming state... And getting into alpha/theta wave sleep consciously is what trance is all about!

Originally Posted by Alyzarin

Omg Gig. I used to be obsessed with him. But yes, that's the general concept. NIS stole my idea. X)

I actually like him for it from a couple different angles, though. The concept is great and all, but when I apply it to myself from both sides I only ever have both parties as female, and with that it's more about the combined dominance/submission thing. When it's with a guy, like Gig , then I prefer the thought of just being on the submissive end, but being willing as opposed to the other fantasy. You better believe I chose "Give up control". XD Possession is a big one for me, I love the thought of my body being used like a puppet to unleash my master's power, especially if he's about to use it to conquer the universe or something.

That's right! You knew about this game from somewhere else, now I remember. You've got great taste. We seriously need to hang out sometime.

Did you ever do the demon path? I'm pretty sure you would have enjoyed it immensely. xD

It starts here, and only goes downhill (uphill?) from here. xD

My bet is that Alyzarin and Abra are just making up stuff to get the guys all hot and bothered. If not, you two should definitely come vistit me. Preferably together

I wish self-hypnosis worked on me, but it never has. How do you self-deceive? Strangely, I succeed with WILDs more than any other type.

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

I wish self-hypnosis worked on me, but it never has. How do you self-deceive? Strangely, I succeed with WILDs more than any other type.

Blatant deception usually doesn't work. In some fetish hypnosis (I say some, because the majority of the community is dedicated to humiliation-rooted hypnosis), it's about cultivating a sense of safety and trust, (optionally more directly breaking resistance, or suggesting obedience) then inducing the subject to believing the following suggestions had arisen from his/her own mind. From there, the subject could even feel relieved/happy/aroused that he/she is being taken over... If that's what the pair wants the experience to be. With the same amount of effort, and an alteration of technique, you could have a subject that is unwillingly giving up control on the 'conscious' level, while on the 'subconscious' level the subject has yielded completely (and this cannot happen unless the subject chooses, probably prior to the start of the session. Obviously consent still exists in hypnosis, but it's to whatever degree (or lack thereof) the subject prefers).

As for how to split yourself into two separate roles for said experience to take place... I don't know, it's just not that difficult for me. I've practiced the skill inside and outside of hypnosis settings.

OH BY THE WAY THIS USED TO BE A BIG FETISH OF MINE.

But as of late, I'm more into the tactile of sex, the rhythm, the body-to-body interaction, and the opportunity to focus completely on a single role at a time.

Everyone wants to get busy with Alyzarin *hugs* NOOOOOO Alyssssa



You can't have her!!!

Originally Posted by Abra

Blatant deception usually doesn't work. In some fetish hypnosis (I say some, because the majority of the community is dedicated to humiliation-rooted hypnosis), it's about cultivating a sense of safety and trust, (optionally more directly breaking resistance, or suggesting obedience) then inducing the subject to believing the following suggestions had arisen from his/her own mind. From there, the subject could even feel relieved/happy/aroused that he/she is being taken over... If that's what the pair wants the experience to be. With the same amount of effort, and an alteration of technique, you could have a subject that is unwillingly giving up control on the 'conscious' level, while on the 'subconscious' level the subject has yielded completely (and this cannot happen unless the subject chooses, probably prior to the start of the session. Obviously consent still exists in hypnosis, but it's to whatever degree (or lack thereof) the subject prefers).

As for how to split yourself into two separate roles for said experience to take place... I don't know, it's just not that difficult for me. I've practiced the skill inside and outside of hypnosis settings.

OH BY THE WAY THIS USED TO BE A BIG FETISH OF MINE.

But as of late, I'm more into the tactile of sex, the rhythm, the body-to-body interaction, and the opportunity to focus completely on a single role at a time.

Interesting. So would you consider yourself submissive? I wonder if such a disposition can affect its rate of success.

Originally Posted by Wolfwood

Interesting. So would you consider yourself submissive? I wonder if such a disposition can affect its rate of success.

I used to consider myself a submissive. But then I got a boyfriend, who is a sub. And then I discovered all the fun (and arousal) of domming, and now I'm a dom much more often than a sub.

So in the end, I go both ways.

Originally Posted by Abra

The depth to which you are hypnotizable depends mostly on your desire and willingness to go under. You choose your own resistance. It helps to know in advance what to expect from the trance. There are plenty of files online that focus solely on inducing trance to hypnosis beginners, just practicing relaxing the body (and achieving the physical state of trance), and perhaps opening the mind to new possibilities (without actively suggesting anything--though a common suggestion for inductions is that you will go under more easily next time). And there are also files which provide scripts, so you know exactly what the suggestions will be.

If you've succeeded at WILD (I rarely do), then you're in good shape for going into trance. 'Cause you have to go through deep sleep (alpha>theta>delta>theta>alpha) to get to the dreaming state... And getting into alpha/theta wave sleep consciously is what trance is all about!

Well, really what worries me is that my racing thoughts will prevent me from falling that deeply into anything. My thoughts go a mile a minute unless I'm really high. Would smoking maybe help make it easier? I'm really not that good at all at WILD, so that doesn't really help me too much right now.

Originally Posted by Singularity125

That's right! You knew about this game from somewhere else, now I remember. You've got great taste. We seriously need to hang out sometime.

Did you ever do the demon path? I'm pretty sure you would have enjoyed it immensely. xD

It starts here, and only goes downhill (uphill?) from here. xD

Thank you! Well, we've talked about the DV get-together before.

That all looks really familiar, but it's been too long and too many... experiences since then. >w< It was right before I started doing drugs that I was playing it. I know I didn't finish the game, though. ...At least, I'm pretty sure I didn't. X)

Originally Posted by PhilosopherStoned

My bet is that Alyzarin and Abra are just making up stuff to get the guys all hot and bothered. If not, you two should definitely come vistit me. Preferably together

You really don't know me that well, huh? XD I just spend a lot of time working on my fantasies, they're sort of a big interest of mine.

Originally Posted by Abra

Blatant deception usually doesn't work. In some fetish hypnosis (I say some, because the majority of the community is dedicated to humiliation-rooted hypnosis), it's about cultivating a sense of safety and trust, (optionally more directly breaking resistance, or suggesting obedience) then inducing the subject to believing the following suggestions had arisen from his/her own mind. From there, the subject could even feel relieved/happy/aroused that he/she is being taken over... If that's what the pair wants the experience to be. With the same amount of effort, and an alteration of technique, you could have a subject that is unwillingly giving up control on the 'conscious' level, while on the 'subconscious' level the subject has yielded completely (and this cannot happen unless the subject chooses, probably prior to the start of the session. Obviously consent still exists in hypnosis, but it's to whatever degree (or lack thereof) the subject prefers).

That's really what I would want out of it. The humiliation thing is really not the big of a deal to me, I just want to feel perfectly at ease giving control of myself up completely. I always thought it was romantic in a way.