 Originally Posted by Wolfwood
Relating to the above, I generally prefer women who are not continuously striving--trying to make a name for themselves--and this usually comes with age. The young are trying to prove, trying to become, trying to accomplish everything. Always thinking of the future. I find those a bit older are happy just being -- they seem more in the present. I like that.
With your looks, if you come to Texas, you would probably die with excitement. A bunch of innocent and wild blonde girls here who are still in the university through their parents' money or signing up for ridiculous amounts of loans because they're too high class for grants. They are basically so clumsy and ditzy, you being there, they would probably give up their virginity just like that.
The cute and hot ones, the average ones just hide in their dorms fantasizing on the Krebs cycle or bragging that they know what a P wave is in some Cardiac graph.
Most of them stutter if I talk to them, as if they didn't think I would do so in the first place. With you, you would laugh at how American females will be easy for you to talk with and possibly get into a relationship with. But again, I don't know how women behave where you live, and this is just what I observed for the university I attend, but having that kind of atmosphere of having a bunch of klutzy women, it's going to get boring, there won't be a challenge anymore.
I'm kind of being narcissistic and cocky saying this, and I don't really enjoy speculating with this kind of mentality, but how all those hot blondes go out with average looking guys because they know the average guy isn't going to break up with them too quickly makes me laugh. To be honest, I would be the one who would make the break-up because I know I can find someone else better.
*goes back to being repressive*
And yeah, I like low-maintenance women, but I do find it hypocritical for me to prefer that when I'm forced to strive for higher and greater things. Guess it must be the traditional role of males having to make large sums of money to support a female.
Inb4Housewife.
 Originally Posted by littlezoe
I understand what you would like in these women, but in my opinion most of these older women are looking for people around their age and not younger boys... That might be the biggest problem...
Well yeah, that too, which is why it's basically taboo to me. Which is why I tried dreaming (or still trying to) about it instead, since there isn't a moral or behavioral boundary.
 Originally Posted by Ekyu
I rather have a girl younger then me or the same age. If i would have sex with a girl older then me, like 5-10 years older it just would feel wrong for a reason. Atleast that's how i would feel about it. Even if they don't know mutch about sex, that would be cool with me. Cause we could learn it together! Seems more fun to me, but that's just my take on it, i understand why somebody would want to be with a older women though.
I could only see that being possible if you have a strong emotional bond with a person. If it's just for a fling or one night stand, it might get boring because it's trying to do the same thing with a different face. Maybe having a different face might satisfy other people, but with short-term relationships, having to be responsible to support a future partner (both for female and males), loans, etc., I doubt, at least here, that there could be that kind of cute experimentation with each other sexualities until after a career/steady job has been made.
But again, it's what you like.
EDIT:
They say (hearsay) that college/university is a perfect time for experimentation, but I doubt I would have time for that in the first place, unless I went with some generic degree like..........ART....(not trying to offend anyone taking that )
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