Thread: What is your sexual preference?

Originally Posted by Solarflare

if you mean stop being bi, i hope that doesn't happen to me , id rather be bi then straight

Well, TBH i haven't been attracted sexually to a female for a while (4 weeks) including ones i previously was attracted too. The thing is I have been bi from when i was 13. When i first got sexually attracted to people, i thought for like two years that i was gay. Then for the next two years i was attracted to both. But now its back to what it was when when I was 11-12. I hope it doesn't stay like that, I enjoy being attracted to both genders :3.

Originally Posted by Supernova

The more the merrier, I suppose

yeee

and no one has too know :3

Anima/Animus will provide insights on this from both genders. Jung was freakin' brilliant in this stuff.

but the following is good too....

"Each boy has traits that society considers feminine. When a boy displays these traits, they meet with disapproval. The boy represses these feminine traits, which become the anima.

The boy develops a normal male persona (mask), and enters the world. He goes to school and follows a career. The urge to actualize his repressed female potentials manifests itself in dreams and fantasy.

At midlife, he experiences unhappiness due to the unrealistic and limiting nature of his masculine persona. At this time he may feel a strong, even overpowering interest in wearing women's clothes, or of being a woman in fantasy. This urge is natural and healthy: it is because his completeness as a person requires expressing the potentials he has repressed.

Lacking societal cues that validate or guide his impulses, he experiences confusion. The world says crossdressing is wrong, but his 'heart' says it is right. Guilt, shame, moral concerns, and his own overly idealized view of masculinity constrain his crossdressing. He also asks questions like "Am I gay" and "Should I change my sex?"
The stage of confusion can last years and decades. The crossdresser may dress often, delve into the culture of crossdressing, or even take female hormones. Or he may remain highly closeted. But the hallmark of this phase is that he remains confused and highly ambivalent, uncertain how to proceed.

This seems a terminal point for many. However, the theories of Jung and others imply that this is not the proper end point, but merely arrested development.

If the crossdressing urge is really adaptive--a response by the organism to remove barriers that have effectively repressed half of the man's potentials--we can speculate that further developmental stages are possible:
The crossdresser recognizes the positive, healing meaning of crossdressing. At this point, crossdressing becomes supported, rather than rejected, by the ego; he may then pursue crossdressing as a constructive activity, now freed from previous moral constraints. But, by the same token, recognition of the positive meaning of the urges also brings an appreciation of sensible limits.

The crossdresser gradually experiences his "inner female." As he does, he finds parts that are of fundamental importance, and realizes that these transcend labels of 'male' or 'female'. He also learns to distinguish the positive, profound parts of the anima (spirituality, love, beauty, etc.) from the trivial (promiscuity, vanity, etc.).

For a while the crossdresser experiences his male and female personalities as distinct. Eventually he allows parts of the female into his ordinary male personality. This stage gradually merges with the next.

The inclusion of the female effects a change in the male personality, producing a new personality that is better than either alone. The female empowers and transforms the male. This stage is ongoing. The new self continues to grow--presumably in the direction of greater spirituality and service to others.
It is consistent with the anima theory that the urge to crossdress may diminish during these later stages. The crossdresser now understands that it was not the clothing or being a woman that he sought--these merely symbolized the deeper aspects of his personality he sought to express. Once he experiences and expresses these aspects directly, female clothing itself has less meaning and importance."

The source is a Russian unknown.

Note also that "cross dressing" does not actually have to be literal as in women wearing men's clothes (which for many is really common to do) and men wearing women's clothes (which is far less common as it is so much more societally unaccepted) but it is more about taking on the spiritual and acceptance and nurturing qualities so often more more attributed to the feminine than the masculine aspects of the physche.

Ps: Do click on the link I provided at the outset of this post. I think many of you can benefit by it.

I clicked strait. Just plain boring strait for me...

Originally Posted by Solarflare

and no one has too know :3

Conclusion: DV is 33% queer.

I say im asexual becuase I just dont know.

shouldnt it be bisexual then?

Originally Posted by Solarflare

shouldnt it be bisexual then?

You maybe wish, but Fred is prolly not yet overcome by sexual hormones, and messed up mental bi-crap like you seem to be. And! Next time you tell me you are not a gayboy, stop the lying, gayboy.

@ Fred; I figure you are pretty young, and I would advise not to listen the gayboy duo here and just love the opposite sex for what they have to offer to your internal psyche. A little deep, maybe, but worthy of a thought or two?

Originally Posted by Mayflow

You maybe wish, but Fred is prolly not yet overcome by sexual hormones, and messed up mental bi-crap like you seem to be. And! Next time you tell me you are not a gayboy, stop the lying, gayboy.

@ Fred; I figure you are pretty young, and I would advise not to listen the gayboy duo here and just love the opposite sex for what they have to offer to your internal psyche. A little deep, maybe, but worthy of a thought or two?

are you religious?

Originally Posted by Solarflare

are you religious?

No. Are you?

hell no.

Originally Posted by Solarflare

hell no.

So, what makes you want to have sex with other guys? Any ideas on this?

Originally Posted by Seroquel

Conclusion: DV is 33% queer.

Moose Antlers is your queer beddy by? Well, that aside, 4 out of 65 (present count) is not 33%. I am radically good in simple math.

Why would a straight person want to have sex with girls? Same answer as it would for gay/ bi people having sex with guys, which is iunno xD

Originally Posted by Mayflow

Moose Antlers is your queer beddy by? Well, that aside, 4 out of 65 (present count) is not 33%. I am radically good in simple math.

well, bi count for both right?

51/ 14

Well at least you can do a bit of simple math! :-)

Doesn't matter. Just don't like gay or bi guys, unless you could say something somehow at least partially intelligent. Dark matter has, and philosopher stoned has, so you see some people use their minds more than mind their peckers like you and seroquel do. I am interested in how people think, not what next gay dude they want to bonk.

what does being gay have to do with intellegence? :/

Originally Posted by zebrah

I was a bit uncertain in the past but now all is clear to me.

Spoiler for funny thread related pic:

You know, ads on your computer are directly related to what sites you visit and things you search.

then i should be getting final fantasy ads everywhere, or gaming in general, but i dont