Thread: Would you trust this?

Originally Posted by LucidFlanders

These techniques are just different ways of learning to understand different situations. Learning is the keyword here. It's not like a technique in how to get as many girls in bed as you can. How to approach a girl at a coffee shop, or a grocery store, a book store, etc. Nothing wrong with the technique, just requires learning how to adapt to different situations.

Maybe Sindred's right lol

Originally Posted by LucidFlanders

I wish mine would end up that way. When i ask girls that they say the normal thing "not much here" kind of thing. Then i watch her walk away, or i walk away. I'd rather say "I hope your day is as good as mine is" or something like that. I guess it's my fault, my body language probably sucks pretty bad. But i'm tired of saying stuff like "yeah" all the time, it drives me nuts!

This happens because she's not interested. Simple. Not all girls are going to be interested in anyone. Some girls think Brad Pitt is ugly. Srs....

Originally Posted by LucidFlanders

"So today i saw these pink unicorns"
"Yeah"

You're probably really not very interested then.
I know social anxiety can make you want to talk less. Because you're trying to avoid feeling nervous. But this also tricks you in to thinking you have nothing to say.
I know this is true, because as soon as you have a couple of drinks, you will be able to talk and you will be interested in what the person's saying, simply because the anxiety is gone.

It took me a while to realise this, and I'm giving you this information for free!

You can figure all this conversation stuff out by yourself, which will make a real lasting change on you. It will also be free, and you might even get laid in the process.

Beats giving away money for something which is most likely a scam, and which will also take practice anyway, and you basically won't be able to have a real relationship either.