Thread: Rant and Rave, Cry and Complain

Originally Posted by Dianeva

Removed the files from it because I thought I'd copied them over to the new one (even emptied the recycle bin) but it's still in my computer.

Well, as oldsparta said, you can easily recover them, as long as you haven't put new stuff on there.
It doesn't really matter how long you leave it for. Just don't get a dodgy program, I can't remember the name of a good one I used.

Originally Posted by Sushi

I was in a great mood for two seconds after waking up from a nap I just took, because I remembered 6 dreams over the course of last night and that nap. Then I remembered that at bowling today, which my "best friend" and boyfriend both go to with me, my friend wouldn't stop saying things to me like "he's still ugly" and "he's so weird" and stuff like that. It's been happening for a while now and I told her before to stop doing it; her reason was that she "didn't like his personality". Now, it's "because the relationship isn't good". She claims that "he never asks me where or how I am, and doesn't want to know", and things like that. Her boyfriend, on the other hand, are glued to each other and see each other every day, but I have homework and shit to do; I don't have time to see him more than twice a week right now.

I got really depressed halfway through bowling even though I shouldn't have... But I knew it was because (more than anything else) that I was tired from this week, stressed over a fuckload of homework, and I still have to work on a graduation video, graphic designs for grad hoodies, and all this other wonderful stuff on top of that!

I left bowling without saying anything to my boyfriend, and I shouted at my best friend when she became very insistent that our relationship "sucks". I was fine with the way it is, it's not bad - there are different types of relationships, and ours is that we just don't see each other that often because we both have a commitment to school. But I'm starting to think about her comments about how he doesn't really ask how I am and stuff... I don't know... I know I shouldn't be doing that, but...

I was going to see a movie with my BF later tonight, but now I don't have the energy. When I got back from bowling, I took that nap, which lasted 4 hours. ;.;

Now my friend is mad at me, and my BF is probably wondering where I am but I didn't want to text him when I got back, I just slept.

Just ignore her. You said it yourself have different types of relationships. Plus it's better to give yourselves room to breath, instead of always being at each others sides. You'll suffocate yourselves doing that.

As for him never asking you how you feel, Some people just don't do that. it's not that he's being inconsiderate, he probably just feels uncomfortable asking, or feels he's pestering you to much. If you're really concerned, ask him how his day was, or how he is, and he'll eventually get the hint.

Damn Patrick.. she's on the same STREET?!

That's horrible, I'm so sorry. I don't know your dad at all, but that sounds pretty damn selfish.

You still hanging around here tonight? I'm here, Lisa + 2 margaritas + 1 glass of chardonnay (so far)

OpheliaBlue

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Originally Posted by OldSparta

OpheliaBlue

http://www.dreamviews.com/f21/specta...0/#post1825216

Haha, Aly just invited me

Originally Posted by OldSparta

Just ignore her. You said it yourself have different types of relationships. Plus it's better to give yourselves room to breath, instead of always being at each others sides. You'll suffocate yourselves doing that.

As for him never asking you how you feel, Some people just don't do that. it's not that he's being inconsiderate, he probably just feels uncomfortable asking, or feels he's pestering you to much. If you're really concerned, ask him how his day was, or how he is, and he'll eventually get the hint.

I have been thinking that. No matter how logical things may seem, and no matter how much I "know" I'm right, sometimes things still have a tendency to get to me. But I'm working on it; I invited him over tonight and we talked about the problems I was having. I felt bad after leaving bowling too, so I told him that. We both agreed that, quote, "without communication, a relationship is dead". I feel better now.

Originally Posted by Sushi

I have been thinking that. No matter how logical things may seem, and no matter how much I "know" I'm right, sometimes things still have a tendency to get to me. But I'm working on it; I invited him over tonight and we talked about the problems I was having. I felt bad after leaving bowling too, so I told him that. We both agreed that, quote, "without communication, a relationship is dead". I feel better now.

Glad to see you're at least working it out with him

We went from 3 phones to 1 working cordless phone.. how the fuck..?

THis night wa sfun seriously.. I literaly feel like oging for a walk now right now though... i think I'm going to go thorugh the back door so my parents dont worry... really feel like ti so much even though it s1am... idc... dangerous but ill ring aknife and walk in busy streets its ok.. feel ilike it so much idkw hy lol.. i have porblems lol

EDIT: I just went for the walk. I collapsed in the dark center of a random field and laid there for about half an hour staring at the sky before leaving. This is Vancouver so, idk, make of it what you will.

I'm really sad I missed the night of DV drinking... my internet was out for two days... :'(

Could we do that again, sometime I might attend?

My head is killing me... and I have to go "work" in like 2 hours. But yeah, I'd definitely do that again. It was very fun

Be safe, man... and damn, you took those beers like a boss!

You still looked sober after that many (with some slight traces of phasing out)

I'll be there next time, shane PROMISE!

You better be!

And man, all that food I ate helped, haha. My mom said she didn't even think I drank that much. She said she though I had two, lol.

I'm happy to hear you guys had so much fun

:hugs: for all the headaches and general pains

My complaints are:
I hate my internet company... but I shouldn't. My family uses WAYYYYY too much bandwidth so I can't *really* blame them. But every freagin time I play EQ2 after midnight, they shut off our internet. I have a clicker to the router in hubby's basement, so I trudged through the snow this morning at 1AM to recycle it. Internet worked fine after that. I waited until 5AM before trying EQ2 again and it was the same thing. I said screw it then went to bed, then hubby called in the perimeter alarm monitor asking if I blew up the internet again It took awhile before recycling was successful that time. WTH?! Come on! I'm going to have to give up my game like I had to give up WoW. Just playing WoW at any time would blow up our internet. With EQ2 I either have to be playing after midnight or zoning to a new location.
I guess I'm doomed to forever play RuneScape :/

My other complaint- a more serious one- is that the boys are out hunting the cats. Stupid pack mentality. If they're tied up, the dogs and cats are perfectly chummy. The second they're loose, it's another story. They killed one of our cats (I suspect) at the Farm a couple years ago.
Thankfully, those "tunnels" under the modular exist because the cats run out of their reach. But Cuddlebug hears them in the vents and is thumping his poor foot off in alarm, which sets off Cocoa.
The boys are cute to watch though. Snuffanuff is part jack rabbit. He'll pick up a scent then start jumping in the air and his dad comes over and pees on the spot. Really? They are so strange. They'll get cold and come back inside shortly. I'm tying their butts back up tomorrow though. The low right now is 3 (with wind chill). Tomorrow, the low is supposed to be 31.

Oh yeah... I didn't fall asleep until almost 6AM, woke at noon. I had several awesome dreams but I forgot them in trying to remember a name: Satchmo. The second I woke up, I realized it's the name of the FBI guys dog in "White Collar". But I remembered the dog had been named after someone, so I just spent 3 good half hour reading up on Louis Armstrong

Originally Posted by OpheliaBlue

You still hanging around here tonight? I'm here, Lisa + 2 margaritas + 1 glass of chardonnay (so far)

Gutted I missed the drinking guys, I think I must have gone to bed already or something. Damn time difference!

Alright, I'm alive. I finally stopped throwing up but I think it's because I haven't moved in a couple hours. *~* My stomach is growling like crazy though, I really need to eat something....

But the good news is I managed to get insanely drunk.

Originally Posted by Dianeva

THis night wa sfun seriously.. I literaly feel like oging for a walk now right now though... i think I'm going to go thorugh the back door so my parents dont worry... really feel like ti so much even though it s1am... idc... dangerous but ill ring aknife and walk in busy streets its ok.. feel ilike it so much idkw hy lol.. i have porblems lol

EDIT: I just went for the walk. I collapsed in the dark center of a random field and laid there for about half an hour staring at the sky before leaving. This is Vancouver so, idk, make of it what you will.

Aw, that sounds like fun. I should've gone on a walk lol. I had a lot of fun though.

Originally Posted by OldSparta

My head is killing me... and I have to go "work" in like 2 hours. But yeah, I'd definitely do that again. It was very fun

You can say that again, on both accounts.

I honestly didn't think so many people would 'attend'. It was really only discussed in that thread of link's which I don't think many people read. Of course we should do it again and have nito, patrick, khh and anyone else who'd like to join there (although the time zones will probably make it impossible). Thanks to everyone who did join for making it fun.

Somehow I do not have a hangover but I'm going to try not to drink for a while. Now I have to go to work. I really don't feel like it.

I watched, but never logged on. The posts were funny. Link did some funny things with his jacket, Shane looks like McLovin' in Superbad, and Dianeva has a very nice smile. Link is kinda cute also...for an Aggie.

Originally Posted by melanieb

I watched, but never logged on. The posts were funny. Link did some funny things with his jacket, Shane looks like McLovin' in Superbad, and Dianeva has a very nice smile. Link is kinda cute also...for an Aggie.

Thank you for the slight ego-boost.

Now to degrade said ego boost to the abyss again.

Crap. Tomorrow is Valentine's Day...I better get to my classes quickly, since they start from 9:10 AM and end at 11:10 AM. That should be enough to lock myself inside my apartment when I'm done...

Originally Posted by Linkzelda41

Crap. Tomorrow is Valentine's Day...I better get to my classes quickly, since they start from 9:10 AM and end at 11:10 AM. That should be enough to lock myself inside my apartment when I'm done....

Actually, it's on Tuesday.

The ball is now in my court. *sigh* I suck at staying in touch with people.
I just spoke to my step-mom and half-brother. Dad supposedly didn't die of Cancer. A heart attack killed him, but he had been sick for a year, had bad lungs and was on oxygen. Sounds like cancer to me, especially as long and as much as he smoked. But who knows. Maybe emphysema.
We talked for almost an hour! She still sounds as sweet as ever and I finally got her quote which I've been trying to remember for years:
"I'd rather be an old mans sweetheart than a young mans slave."

Originally Posted by Alyzarin

Actually, it's on Tuesday.

So I see y'all managed to get the drinking night thread locked haha!

Reminds me of frat parties in college when the cops shut down the party because we were too rambunctious

also, WALKING DEAD = the reason I'm not in chat