I'm working on becoming lucid too man, and it isn't easy! All I can tell you is that I started a dream journal and it helps you recall dreams better, and maybe notice patterns in your dreams. By recalling your dreams better I don't mean that if you keep one then you'll start remembering your dreams better (you might, but that isn't whats happening to me) but your dreams that you DO record, you will remember better. Also start doing reality checks, I haven't started doing these yet but I plan on starting tomorrow. Just keep it up and understand that it's something that might not come so easily. good luck bro