I have come to the conclusion that what I am looking for from this site is self discipline in my lucid dreams. I have had several emails with LucidDreamGod about this subject with both suggestions that I have rejected and taken to heart. I am open to any suggestions though.
My basic problem is I am having a perfectly good lucid dream and I have a thought that throws a monkey wrench into the whole thing. Sometimes I can fix it and sometimes I can't. It's kind of like the Star Trek episode "Shore Leave" if anybody is familiar with that. I need self discipline in real life also if that is related.