I've been having lucid dreams for awhile now, I'm a every curious person and try to figure out what my dreams mean or try controlling them. I first started with having sleep paralysis that turned into lucid dreaming... the only problem is, once I gain consciousness that I am in deed dreaming, I'll turn to one of the dream people and say "hey this is just a dream" or "non of this is real" and automatically they ALL turn to me pointing at me as if I "found out", their eyes will get big or face will go blank. Like their face will illegitimately will disappear and they get offended that I found out this huge secret that I wasn't supposed to know and then I'll be thrown out of the dream or sucked out of the dream or everything will crumble around me then BAM I wake up.
I'm wanting to know how I can prevent this because I really want to go further with being lucid without them "finding out" or them not getting so upset about me knowing. why do they react that way and why do I get thrown or sucked out of the dream when I finally gain awareness?