He actually is not on these forums but is interested in joining this one as I have shown him many things on here that interest him.

I also wanted to clarify something...my husband and I did not try what you called shared dreaming...as we did not try to dream together(in the same dream). When I said he has been trying to help me achieve lucidity...I meant that he would be awake and aware I was in REM and would start wispering or telling me in my ear that I was dreaming...it then translated into my dream and I began yelling at him in my dream. Sorry if that was confusing.